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Welcome to the social networking support site.
Me, Myself, and I
Reviewed February 09.

Welcome to SIA on Bebo. The social networking group that aims to provide support and awareness regarding self injury and related issues.
Since March 2007 we have built a small community of nearly 800 members, developed a support team and began to provide useful and practical information and support to those who truly need it.
We recently developed a website with many features not avalable on Bebo. Including advanced forums, member blogs, SIA profiles and a bumper list of distractions and alternatives for when you need them.
If you haven’t already then please make yourself at home, check out the links below or dive right in by introducing yourself in the comments module below.
All are welcome.
Many thanks for reading
- Carla
(founder and moderator)

Become part of the community: http://sias.webs.com/apps/members/
Contact the support team: http://www.bebo.com/BlogView.jsp?Mem...

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Gothic Love. commented on Self Injury Awareness And Support.'s photo.
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"I never knew that. Jonny Depp... Of all people.. Jonny Depp..."
Gothic Love. commented on Self Injury Awareness And Support.'s photo.
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"I was bullied in Primary school, and moved into Secondary school now, I'm bullied by someone who is 3-4 years older than me. Well, was, but it was on the bus and the bus driver caught him, so now he avoids me. I still wanna be friends with him again. And I get cyber bullied an awful lot, I can't put up with it. In Primary, I was told I was fat and ugly, and I believe it still, though people say I'm not. It definetly hurts."
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"see... the sky and clouds... (btw i'm floating in the air) hear... birds, the wind, peaceful music feel... the wind on my skin (cant say hair, shaved it off) the sun..., fluff coz i'm on a cloud smell...freash air... around me...clouds i am, floating, happy, relaxed..."

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  • Support Team Listings

    PLEASE NOTE
    You may need to click the title of this entry (Support team listings ^) to see it in its entirety. Not all hours are featured on the main page as it is a long entry and does not fit.

    Find out about the support team here:
    http://sias.webs.com/support.htm
    Find out about applying to be a support team member here:
    http://sias.webs.com/support.htm#335...
    Check the time in the UK here:
    http://sias.webs.com/support.htm#335...

    LISTINGS

    12am - 1am
    No support members are currently available please scroll down to see our 24 hour support team members.

    1am - 2am
    Name: Lozz
    Contact: lornabee@hotmail.co.uk
    Bebo URL: www.bebo.com/Shemo-Kid
    Lozz says: I'm in recovery. I was helped out by a good friend by just being able to talk to them and for them not to judge me. I'm here to listen and not judge. Sometimes it's good just to vent and get things off your chest. Everything anyone tells my will be kept in confidence. =]

    2am - 3am
    No support members are currently available please scroll down to see our 24 hour support team members.

    3am - 4am
    No support members are currently available please scroll down to see our 24 hour support team members.

    4am - 5am
    No support members are currently available please scroll down to see our 24 hour support team members.

    5am - 6am
    No support members are currently available please scroll down to see our 24 hour support team members.

    6am - 7am
    Name: Tish
    Contact: bleedingroses37@yahoo.com
    Bebo URL: www.bebo.com/LEMMING-FOOOOD
    Tish Says: I’m doing very well in recovery, after my experiences with SH I’ve really wanted to become more active in support and awareness.

    7am - 8am
    Name: Ali
    Contact: ali@linney.me.uk
    Profile: http://sias.webs.com/apps/profile/pr...
    Ali says: I’m in recovery, and see a therapist regularly. I understand what your going through, and I would love to help you - oh and I tend to overuse smilies a lot.

    Name: Tish
    Contact: bleedingroses37@yahoo.com
    Bebo URL: www.bebo.com/LEMMING-FOOOOD
    Tish Says: I’m doing very well in recovery, after my experiences with SH I’ve really wanted to become more active in support and awareness.

    8am - 9am
    No support members are currently available please scroll down to see our 24 hour support team members.

    9am - 10am
    Name: Dave
    Contact: david-j-payne@hotmail.co.uk
    Bebo URL: http://www.bebo.com/waspyy
    Dave says: here to help

    10am - 11am
    Name: Jenny
    Contact: pidgeon_pie@hotmail.com
    Bebo URL: http://www.bebo.com/mrfoxiswatchinyou
    Jenny says: Nothing to say!

    11am - 12pm [noon]
    Name: Bronwyn-Theresa
    Contact: belltbronwyn@hotmail.com
    Bebo Profile: http://www.bebo.com/belltbronwyn
    Bronwyn Says: Helping you helps me - funny but its true, though Im here at this time I am around about over the day between classes and work and sleeping! I am also widely open to those of you from New Zealand, where I can be contacted by phone if need be. Live. Laugh. Love. Dance. Inspire. Dream.

    12pm [noon] - 1pm
    Name: Sara
    Contact: scarredgothicprincess@hotmail.com
    Bebo URL: http://www.bebo.com/RIP-Rea-XxXxXx
    Sara says:Im here to listen n help :]

    1pm - 3pm
    Name: Evee
    Contact: the_curse_of_me_unto_you@hotmail.c
     om
    Profile: http://sias.webs.com/apps/profile/pr...
    Evee says: More than happy to help! :D

    3pm - 4pm
    No support members are currently available please scroll down to see our 24 hour support team members.

    4pm - 5pm
    No support members are currently available please scroll down to see our 24 hour support team members.

    5pm - 6pm
    Name: Lauren
    Contact: mrswiLfrancis2@hotmail.com
    Profile: http://sias.webs.com/apps/profile/pr...
    Lauren Says: I'd be happy to help.

    6pm - 7pm
    Name: Ali
    Contact: ali@linney.me.uk
    Profile: http://sias.webs.com/

    1 Comment 647 days

  • Apply to be a support team member.

    Find out about becoming a support member by following this link.
    http://sias.webs.com/support.htm#335...

    0 Comments 649 days

  • STUDY

    I have just added a study like ‘quiz’ to the quizzes section to see whether there are is any noticeable similarities between our members who have experienced self injury for example how much social and health issues may have effected there predisposition to self injure or how many of our members have found professional support helpful.
    Obviously this ‘study’ isn’t remotely scientific but I still thought it may be interesting, especially if a lot of people respond.
    If you do take the quiz please don’t click on the ’…’ answer as this is the response I have marked down as ’correct’ - there are no right or wrong answers to this quiz and if ’…’ is omitted then everyone should score 0% and there answers will just become part of the study rather than being useless.
    Thank you!

    0 Comments 653 days

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  • Elephant Girl
    luv Elephant Girl

    Stay strong everyone!!!!!

    xXx

    5 hours ago
  • Ellieretamaycoyle.
    Ellieretamaycoyle.

    thanks, i can contact her on msn and call her but it costs heaps. im going to wellington tomorow and my mum has a webcam. wooo. lol. hope everyones doning do here =] *hugs*

    11 hours ago
  • Carla
    luv Carla

    Pampered princess
    Hello love, that sounds great, have fun and let me know how it goes! X
    Look after yourself
    X

    Bronwyn
    Hows life angel?
    X

    Louise
    Darl you know you can bebo mail me, or email - whatever it is just stay calm and try to be strong, I know you can get through most things, you’ll be okay *hug*
    Get in touch angel
    X

    Anna
    *hug* Here if you need me.
    X

    Gilly-Bean
    Hi love, can I do anything? Feel free to email or bebo mail, stay strong x
    x-carla-x@live.co.uk
    X

    12 hours ago
  • Carla
    luv Carla

    Ellie
    You don’t sound whiney love it sounds like this has been a really difficult experience and its understandable that you are struggling. Are you able to contact her at all, online or by phone? I normally wouldn’t suggest you do this if it may cause a problem with your family but it sounds like you have a shared dependency of each other and take some comfort from your relationship. Weather you manage to stay in touch or you’re not able to talk to her I can promise that it will get easier, she wouldn’t want you to be miserable I’m sure.
    You know if you need to talk you can email me, or bebo mail.
    x-carla-x@live.co.uk
    Look after yourself and just take things one day at a time.
    - C
    X

    12 hours ago
  • Gilly-Bean
    luv Gilly-Bean

    Help <3

    21 hours ago via Mobile
  • Anna
    luv Anna

    fail

    23 hours ago
  • Louise
    Louise

    HELP

    1 day ago
  • Ellieretamaycoyle.
    Ellieretamaycoyle.

    *Possible Trigger*
    *from continued*








    i really miss her. but we like promised each other we wouldn't SI or anything. but i just want to. i have attempted suicide before. but i don't think it really counts. i took like 30 panodol mixed with nurofen but just woke up the next day vomiting. i really miss my friend. i think about her all the time, my parents don't like her and actually requested that she wasn't allowed to contact me. i want to move back to wellington now. my life is just turned upside down in a week. i feel like shit. i cry everyday. blah. i sound do whiney.

    1 day ago
  • Ellieretamaycoyle.
    Ellieretamaycoyle.

    i have to say, ive had the best and the worst week. The best bit was that i fianlly admitted i like my best friend and she like me to! we were really close and because i go to a boarding school and she was 5th form (im 3rd) we were not allowed to go into each others rooms or anything so we went into the piano cubes and computer room. when the matrons found out that we were in their they said we weren't allowed because it was a health and saftey hasard to be behing locked doors. we kept going in and when we got found again and again we were told that we weren't allowed to make any contact for the next day untill this was talked about with the hostel manager. then i was told that i had to have a meeting with the principal. i was stood down from the Hostel but i get to go back next term. but my friend, who was an intonational student was "asked to leave" shes not coming back and she has now moved back to america. that sucks so much.

    *continued*

    1 day ago
  • Bronwyn Watters - Bell
    Bronwyn Watters - Bell

    *cough cough*

    Aww Chris - You will smile again, my bestie Shann he hardly ever smiles these days though I did just see a photo of him the other day with a smile...its like a rainbow...

    I have some good news that should make you smile - it better!! And I want you to make sure Rich sees it...I will post it on your bebo...

    2 days ago
  • Pamperd Princess
    Pamperd Princess

    hello
    ive got work ex next week
    in a nursery xx
    fun lol
    my arms sore xxxx

    2 days ago
  • Carla
    Carla

    Taste the rainbow
    Thanks for the trigger warning darl, its okay that you self injured we’ve all had our slips ups in the past and we do understand, you can email me or bebo mail me or comment here as often as you would like to.
    Don’t give up, you’re not alone *hug*
    x-carla-x@live.co.uk

    4 days ago
  • Carla
    Carla

    Georgiia
    Well done darl, you’re doing okay, I know things are tough but you’re coping well *hug* keep fighting.

    4 days ago
  • Carla
    Carla

    Chris
    If it wasn’t recently then your doctor shouldn’t have a problem as long as you’ve had a review since then which I presume you have? If your doctor refuses point blank then I suggest you get a second opinion. I don’t rave about medication but it is valuable especially for stabilizing mood.
    About not seeing your doctor soon enough - have you tried booking an emergency appointment or asking your doctor if there is anyone they can refer you to that you can see on a regular basis?
    {Continued below}

    4 days ago
  • Carla
    Carla

    {Continued from above}
    I think that doctors leave far to long between reviews, almost all mental health issues can change rapidly from month to month and week to week, these things should be monitored and there not, its ridiculous.
    As for Rich you know he loves you, it cant be nice to see someone he cares for so distressed…I know it can feel like nagging though, sometimes you feel like you just cant make people understand the way you feel and the truth is you cant all the time but I know he would try his best to do everything he can for you, especially if you can open up to him about what’s on your mind from day to day.
    Lots of hugs <3

    4 days ago
  • Carla
    Carla

    Bronwyn
    Catch you on MSN soon I hope, take care angel <3

    4 days ago
  • Taste The Rainbow Bitchess
    luv Taste The Rainbow Bitchess

    trigger warning

    i screwed up.

    there's been a lot of stuff going on lately and when i found my razor last night....

    i really need someone to talk to..

    5 days ago
  • Pamperd Princess
    luv Pamperd Princess

    hi i ate a salad n a apple didnt purge xxx
    still havent self harmed :)
    xx

    6 days ago
  • Damage Case
    luv Damage Case

    *trigger warning*


    Well I know the doc was reluctant to perscribe anything because I O'D'd on meds some years ago.

    Typically it takes so long to get an appointment with him anyway it pans out I end up seeing him when my moods aren't so severe so he doesn't get to see how bad I'm feeling.

    It doesn't help that Rich keeps on going on about how he rarely sees me smiling any more to the point it feels like he's nagging at me.

    I dunno, I can barely think straight anymore ...

    6 days ago
  • Bronwyn Watters - Bell
    Bronwyn Watters - Bell

    Deanna
    Im one of the Kiwi Support team members if you wanna chat as well :) Im on both Telecom and Vodafone..Just becareful posting your number up on here like that - you never know who will take it down...there are alot of creepy people out there - and bikers full of sperm (lol I love that line from 10 things i hate about you)

    Carla
    I did the other night - and well yes one thing led to another and I will have to tell you in person one day - msn thingy..you know me I suck at the email thingy these days..

    6 days ago