Ron Adams
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Male, 49,
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- from United States
- Married
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- Member since: December 2007
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- www.bebo.com/RWAdams
- Tagline
- "Just another day in paradise"
- Me, Myself, and I
- I am relatively new author, having published my first novel, LAKE EFFECT, in 2003. My second, soon to be published by Enspiren Press, is KEY LIME SQUEEZE, the second in the Joe Banks series.
I was born and raised outside of Boston, MA, but have spent over half my life in the Buffalo and Western New York area. I am married for over twenty years to the love of my life, Trish, and we have two amazing children, Danny and Katie.
- Music
- Jimmy Buffett (avowed Parrothead), Phil Vassar, Trans-Siberian Orchestra, BB KIng, Eric Clapton, Jackdaw
- Films
- Major League, The Natural, Bull Durham, Braveheart, Pirates of the Carribean 1-3
- Sports
- Boston Red Sox, NE Patriots, Buffalo Sabres, Buffalo Bills, UFC
- Scared Of
- Not too much
- Happiest When
- Spending time with my Trish, Danny, and Katie
- Other sites
- www.myspace.com/rwadams
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In Praise of My Day Job
Like many writers still trying to fight our way onto the best-seller list, I have a day job. As a matter of fact, I am happy to point that out any time anyone asks how my writing career is going. I am the Director of Rehabilitation Services for two nursing homes in downtown Buffalo, and truly love what I do. The following article from the New York Times came across my desk in February this year, and was written by Caitlin Kelly, the author of “Blown Away: American Women and Guns.” After a day filled with hearing how “mean and wicked” we “physical terrorists” are, this was wonderful to read.
“I first had physical therapy at 27, after I slipped on an icy Montreal sidewalk and tore the ligaments in my left ankle. I had it again at 42 and 43, after surgery on my right and left knees, and most recently I’ve had it on both shoulders.
My orthopedist likes to say surgery is half the battle. If so, it’s the easy half.
The slow and repetitive work of physical therapy often starts the next day, and for an injury like a tear in an anterior cruciate ligament, it can take up to six months. Before you’ve done it, it’s hard to imagine anything is going to take so long and hurt so much.
Part of the challenge is the nature of arthroscopic surgery, whose multiple incisions are often so tiny they barely leave a trace. I’ve had torn meniscus (cartilage) removed from both my knees, and I have to look really hard to find my scars. Removal of bone spurs from my shoulder through four incisions left my skin almost smooth. Surely this is a good thing.
But those minuscule entry points make it difficult to comprehend what has been done in there. After only 45 minutes under general anesthetic and with no huge incision or bloody wound, why am I in so much pain? And why do I have to keep doing these silly exercises?
Surgeons have little time, and sometimes less appetite, to discuss the minutiae of a procedure’s aftereffects. Often it’s the physical therapists who patiently explain what the physician did and why we now have to relinquish huge chunks of our time to rehabilitation.
Physical therapy, or P.T., demands the month-after-month tedium of spending hours in a room filled with strangers stretching colored rubber bands or spinning their arms in circles.
The rituals are oddly and intimately public. Patients of every age, race and income level share a large, sunny room. We do our leg-raises side by side on wide beds. We wait in line for the pulley, the elliptical and the arm bike. We learn a new language and its tools: the strap, the stick, shrugs and pinches.
Everyone ends up in P.T. — lithe teenage athletes, construction workers and police officers with job-related strains, C.E.O.’s with skiing injuries, older people with replaced knees and hips. I’ve commiserated there with an Episcopal minister, an Ivy League economics professor and a firefighter.
The rituals become routine, starting with a heating pad and nerve stimulation, ending with the soothing benediction of a black rubber ice pack. We learn to bend our lives around the inexorable, unfashionable truth — healing takes work and it takes time.
Camaraderie grows as patients compare notes on the frustration of needing help for tasks as simple as pulling up your trousers or opening a can of soup. Women commiserate with the new knowledge that a bra strap can pinch a healing shoulder like steel cable. Struggling to complete even the simplest of tasks in a room full of fellow adults is humbling. When I see someone’s jaw clench with effort, I remember that lifting a one-pound weight can be tough.
I never expected to forge a multiyear relationship with my physical therapists, but I have. I like Helen and Matt and Stephanie and Richard. Really. I just hope I never see them again.
I don’t envy them their job, stretching and shaking and manipulating our joints to loosen them and keep them flexible. It has left me gasping in pain, sometimes even tears. I0 Comments 209 days
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Sneak peek at KEY LIME SQUEEZE
I wanted to invite my friends at Bebo to a sneak at my novel, KEY LIME SQUEEZE, due to be released in February. Please visit www.authonomy.com, and type Key LIme Squeeze in the search box. I would love to hear what you think, and welcome you to leave a comment, critique, etc. Thanks in advance, and I hope you enjoy the story as much as I enjoyed writing it. C'mon, get in on the "squeeze"!
Peace,
Ron Adams0 Comments 282 days
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New Short Story - "Was She Worth It?"
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Please visit my Shadows and Night website to check out my latest short story, "Was She Worth It?" It is a cautionary tale of adultery, murder, and ... a Blackberry? I have been playing around with the short story format and this is my latest effort. This story was inspired by my natural aversion to tech for tech's sake, and by a picture of a beautiful white luxry car with the words "was she worth it?" scrawled across the pristine finish in black spray paint. Drop by for a visit and let me know what you think. And while you're there, feel free to chack out the other short stories, some written by me, som by other fine writers. We all welcome the feedback.
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Jackie Stroud-Painter53 weeks agoThank you for the being kind and adding me. I found you on blogspot. It's nice to know that other writers are nice enough to be so kind. Thanks again. Jackie
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Ron Adams59 weeks agoFrom the "old dog-new tricks" file, I have posted a new short story for review on my Authorsden.com web page. Please check out "Eddie's Exit" at:
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Ron Adams60 weeks agoA big thank you to Ms. Kim Smith, author of the Shannon Wallace mystery series and wordsmith extraordinairre, for hanging out at my website last week. And thanks to all who left a note and comments. I hope to get into more of that in the coming weeks, so if anyone is interested in posting on my blog, let me know and we'll set it up!
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Ron Adams60 weeks agoHelp! I've been hijacked...
And I mean that in a good way. Please visit my blog at www.ronaldwadams.blogspot.com and meet, if you haven't already, my friend and fellow Enspiren Press mystery writer Kim Smith. Kim is the author of the soon to be released Avenging Angel, a novel I've had the absolute pleasure of reviewing. If you are a fan of bold and brassy heroines, and like your novels with a little bit of chutzpah in the mix, I urge you check her out. She has hijacked my site for Tuesday, and I am more than happy to surrender! Stop by, check it out, and let me know what you think.
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64 weeks ago
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Hey Ron,
I hope you have a wonderful birthday and you get to spend with the ones you love.
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64 weeks ago
Rosalie Skinner
Happy Birthday Ron...
Have a Great Day in Paradise.
Loved 'Key Lime Squeeze'.
A new favourite!!
Keep writing... Can't wait for the next Joe Banks adventure.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY
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Wendy L64 weeks agoBirthday greeting from Australia, Ron!
I hope you have a wonderful day and a very productive year.
Happy Birthday.























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