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^^^ Becky ^^^
I'm Becky the main moderator of SHA. I've been a harmer since i was 9 and cutting since i was 14. I've been in recovery since late 2007 and my longest stint clear was 12months. In Jan 09 my best friend died in a car crash. Since then I've struggled a lot and have taken a few steps backwards in my recovery but i'm working on taking them forward again.
SHA is designed to assist harmers in finding somewhere they can get help and advice with out being judged. We're here to provide information to famly and friends of self harmers aswell. We do have some rules for our site, and it's use, but they are only in place to ensure the safety of our beloved members.
I'd like everyone to welcome our new moderator Zoe She's here to help me keep on top of things and keep bebo SHA moving while I [very slowly] create the official website...
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- Eating Disorder awareness. (36)
- Info albums - drugs, miscarriage/teen preg, alcoholism, boys and SH/Ed's
- Participant albums - eg: distractions, alternatives, Member memories
- Help albums - help for abuse, rehab, A and E trips, etc
- Forum discussions - Size 0 debate, REM song etc
- SHA Promotions stuff - photos, icons, skins members can use
Moments Forever Faded
Hey im putting together a book to help people who self harm2 Replies 211 weeks
i still need at least 15 stories till i can start puttin the book together and hopefully getting it published so please help me out and send in your stories ...
Also i am in need of a front cover
the book is going to be called It Cuts Deep
so if you'd like to do some art work then go ahead send it to me and the best one will get used and will get free Bebo Luv
Thanks from Lauren
This is a forum dedicated to your poetry / song lyrics / anything written that you have done.4 Replies 212 weeks
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Some people get stuck finding a reason to quit. Coming up with one that you know you can stick by and that will get you through the tough times is hard.3 Replies 219 weeks
I want to make an album with the reasons some of our members have used for quitting. This will be designed to spark people's thougths and ideas when they are stuck for a reason. SO what i need you to do is;
1. Let me know your reasons for quitting
You can do this by putting your reason here or by bebo mailing it to me subject - quitting reason.
2. I will put up all the reasons in an album tiltled OUR REASONS.
Please help me get up a good list =]
So i have heard that bebo MAY be closing down .
Because of this i urge everyone to join our official website.
Most of you already have my email address and those of you who do not can access it from here or from the official site.
Please be aware that the official site is STILL under construction >.< I know I've been UBER slack on getting it up and running properly, but I am working on it, unfortunately due to the nature of my full time employment, I often have work that i bring home with me and so I have not been putting int he hours that I would like to.
Having said that, I shall have SHA Official up and running completely, hopefully by the end of August. That is my aim Wish me luck.
Kisses and wishes,
love and hugs
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Just a reminder that SIA day is coming up on the 1st of March!!!
Wear something orange, or make a sign or something and send in a photo to go in our SIADay album!!
Lots of love
And remembe to Stay strong
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I'm working on some new albums =] let me know what you think of the ideas.
+ Depression [self help tips]
+ Helping someone at risk of suicide
+ Help for carers of those with mental illness
+ Anger and managing aggression
+ Loneliness and overcoming it
+ Self Soothing - calming/comforting yourself [can be used when feeling triggered or
urges to harm. Also may be good for when having suicidal thoughts]
lso have a LOAD of info on sexuality. Gay, Lesbian, Bisexuality. If you would like an album on this area, the please let me know =]
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