sarah-lee's birthday january 9th
buddy's birthday 25th january
7th february cousin kirstin's birthday
february 9th the day ireturn home
11th february helen's 19th birthday
my 19th birthday 12th february
march 5th little nugget jay's 1st birthday
8th march junior's birthday
april 12th baby comes to the world
22nd april besdiee's 19th birthday
jessica's 15th birthday april 26th
may 1Oth swack's 17th birthday
3rd june trip back to nz (fucking delayed! )
june 12th hando's 19th birthday
August 28th Mum turns the Norty Forty
trip home for the weekend 25th August
elaine's 2Oth birthday august 29th
3Oth august dee's 33rd birthday
lazarus' birthday september 11th
september 25th leilani's birthday
26th november elijah's birthday
nana's 77th birthday december 26th

so igot a call from sarah (bless her soul ) after 9pm (new zealand time) only to have her ring daraniee's number . so we start talking , then ihear mum in th background yelling "is that thena?!" .. "give me the phone!" . then me and mum start talking , funny thing is she thought irang , so sarah your sooo dead when mum see's the phone bill . now this is where all hell breaks loose ! mum just happens to blurt out she's moving to christchurch .. but with good reason .. my aunty was just recently diagnosed with cancer . so mum's going down to help her . sooo its reeeally hard to know that my family is going through that . this shit totally blows . so idont know what to do ? whether to make two trips ? or what ? FML