I've learned that you cannot make someone love you..all you can do is be someone who can be loved..the rest is up to them.I've learned that no matter how much I care..some people just don't care back

I've learned that it takes years to build up trust&only seconds to destroy it

I've learned that it's not what happens to people that's important..it's what they do about it

I've learned that it's taking me a long time to become the person I want to be&i’m still not there

I've learned that it's a lot easier to react than it is to think

I've learned that you should always leave loved ones with loving words..it may be the last time you see them

I've learned that you can keep going long after you think you can't

I've learned that we are responsible for what we do..no matter how we feel

I've learned that heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done..regardless of the consequences

I've learned that learning to forgive takes practice

I've learned that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had&what you've learned from them..&less to do with how many birthdays you've celebrated

I've learned that no matter how good a friend someone is..they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that

I've learned that it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others..sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself

I've learned that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn't stop for your grief

I've learned that even when you think you have no more to give..when a friend cries out to you..you will find the strength to help

I've learned that the people you care most about in life are taken from you too soon......

I am not what I ought to be. I am not what I wish to be. I am not even what I hope to be. But by God's grace and Christ's love I am not what I was

guess its time to face reality!!!!


Its time to stop looking bk at all those things that i miss from the past, and stop thinking of those that im going to miss in the not to far future.

The fact of reality is, everyone one moves on with life and by trying to hold on to the past, u stop moving and stand still. Soon u'll look around and find that ur the only one around because u cant reach back to the past and everyone else kept on moving.

So what to do?
Grow up and start moving also!!; because ur future depends on what ur doing today. Move in the direction u want ur future to be, because there will come a point in you life years from now, when u will want to stop and look back....What will you see? What will I see?

For now, if there has to be any looking or thinking, let it be the future otherwise, enjoy the present.


PEACE!!!