If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behaviour.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache .

Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.

If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends ".
A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle .

If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better ."

You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?

Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.

Never let a man know everything.* He will use it against you later.

You cannot change a man's behaviour.* Change comes from within.

Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he has more education or in a better job .

Do not make him into a quasi-god.
He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.

A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.

You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is two way street.

You need time to heal between relationships ...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship

You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.

Dating is fun..even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted.

Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.* Keep him in your radar but get to know others .

Scared of being alone is what makes a lot of women stay in relationships that are abusive or hurtful : Dr Phill

You should know that you're the best thing that could ever happen to
anyone and if a man mistreats you, he'll miss out on a good thing. If he was attracted to you in the 1 st place, just know that he's not the only one. They're all watching you, so you have a lot of choices. Make the right one.

Ladies take care of your own hearts.

Yeah okay, let’s get one thing straight; prison break was appalling last week. Before you get mad, bear in mind that there is a poll online about whether or not it should be CANCELED so listen up to why that may be a reality.
I also want to underline the fact that nobody adores this show more than me and that’s why I'm so annoyed. It was terrible. How? What’s that? You don’t understand? Let me clarify.

1. SONA burned down? You’ve got to be kidding me! We didn’t get to see it happen or anything! GREAT cheap ass way to get the cons back on the streets with no complications. TERRIBLE. All mike had to do was wait three weeks n then he could have got out! It defeats the purpose of season three entirely.

2. Sara coming back, yeah I knew about that obviously, but it was just ridiculous.
“It was dark” says Mike. “And you said LJ only heard it happen, his eyes were closed” oh give me a break! PRISON BREAK IS WAAAAY TOO GOOD FOR CRAP LIKE THAT. The standard of this show is too high to treat us like idiots.
Sorry MISA fans but they cut her head off and she is dead. You can’t bring her back. And you know what? There was no NEED to. The spat that went on in S3 between Sarah and the producers eliminated her from the show.
ALSO, WHY WERE MIKE AND SARA SIMPLY TALKING AND HAVING A WEE KISS HERE AND THERE? Not to E dirty, but should they not be UNDER the sheets rather than on them? I know the ladies are with me on that one! But seriously, remember S02 E16 “Chicago” things were pretty hot in that train and they weren’t anywhere near a bed!

3. What the hell is Bellick still in the show for? You’ve got to be joking. I LOVE Wade Williams and his role has been brilliant, but its OVER. He has NOTHING to add to the show. He’s a weiner, a weakling! He’s afraid of his own shadow.

4. We all love that Latino accent carried by Nolasco. Nuh uh, he shouldn’t be in the show either cause you know what? They should’ve just let the guy go off with his chick last season. Also, how the hell has he got a baby? Maricruz was like 4months pregnant IF THAT, and at the start of S4 it says 3weeks have passed since we last saw mike. YOU DO THE MATH. That’s some premature baby, and it didn’t look like it was missing the womb to me!

5. How come everybody got arrested at the same time? NONSENSE. Sure I could see WHY, but it was so obvious WHY. I’m not digging the whole Scofield's 7 thing. the plot is complicated and because of this, hard to follow and boring. Somebody pointed out that the bit with leaving the device in the house using the maid was highly flawed because all they had to do was get Sara to go back to the bustop and say that she accidentally dropped her phone in there! TRUE!

6. The dodgy black guy. He’s crap. Has NOOO personality at all. He isn’t scary. KELLERMAN was scary. MAHONE was scary. SUSAN was Satan in a curvaceous figure! This new guy is like a lapdog that runs errands. Bad casting there which is probably a first in this show.

7. Lastly… MIKE’S TATTOOS! GOSH! They got rid of them! I cannot believe that! Do you remember the split second you get to see them in the episode? I squeaked with excitement because I LOVE THE TATTS! And so do you! WHY would they get rid of something the fans love SOOOOOO much. They just slapped us in the face people! TERRIBLE! And would mike not have SERIOUS problems sleeping, talking, sitting, thinking about anything other than “OH MY GOSH MY BODY IS RED RAW!” and yet he was popping no pain pills.

It’s over people and I am going to be the first to say it. It has been the best show on earth. Paul S, Brett Ratner, I salute you for all the good times you have given us.

Niki's - NO1 PB Fan… in agony over the shows demise, over and out.

I may be 'Over The Top' but I am Sincere. If you don't know that, then you don't really know me.

I may be 'Dramatic' but it's because I'm Passionate about life, but my heart is in the right place. Should I appologise?

I may not be your 'Cup Of Tea' but that's the beauty of Humanity. We are all different & thank God for that.

I will remain True to Myself, because one thing i know is that I have True Intentions.

Disrespect me & Bring me down if it makes u feel better.


BUT:


I have the Courage to remain True to Myself and I will Still have the Strength & Passion in my Heart to Fight for the Convictions that I Believe in.