A Vision-Of-Hope
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Kobieta,
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- z glasgow
- Wyświetlenia: 156
- Jest z nami od: October 2007
- Ostatnio online: 3 tygodnie temu
- bebo.gazeta.pl/a_vision_of_hope
- Motto
- even in the darkest times, there is always a glimmer of hope x
- Ja, o mnie i jeszcze raz ja
- Hello I just wanted to take this time to introduce myself. Iam a 25 year old female from the Glasgow area. I have decided to put together this Bebo page for other people who are willing to help not only others but themselves. If any of you are self harmers or abuse yourself in any way and are recovering then you will know all to well the current stigma that goes with it, what I would like to acheive is to try and lift some of that stigma and to provide a safe place for people to discuss POSITIVE ways of reducing the impulse or the need to self harm. In no way whatsoever will this page be used to promote self harm, any comments/messeges left will be deleted straight away so dont waste your time or mine. no Graphic pictures should be posted either as they to will be deleted. Lets keep this a happy safe place to express ourselves without resorting to self harm. Iam not a counsillor, psychiatrist or of any medical profession but Im here to listen. T
- A 'DEFENITION
- Self injury is most commonly seen as the act of deliberately causing harm to one's own body. In a matter of opinion, it can be defined as "an act one a person's own self that lasts for two hours or more." (Matter of opinion, though.) It is a sign of the emotional battles within, and can sometimes be seen as an addiction. There can be many causes to this, among them being emotional trauma, lack of an example on how to deal with extreme emotions at a young age, rape, harassment, depression, emotional/physical abuse or neglect and many other things. It takes a lot of strength to face this issue, and it isn't the easiest thing to come forward and say that you self injure to a family member.
- SUPPORTING SOMEONE
- Helping someone who self-harms is a very stressful thing to do and not everyone can manage it. Do not feel guilt about this, you can only give what you have got.
* A person who self-harms is very distressed already, try not to ignore the person as this will not help. Try to respect them, be the same person as they knew beforehand.
* Make it clear that you are a safe person and that they can talk to you about their problems.
* Try and help the person find other sources of support, for example a support group or therapist.
* Try to show that you are interested in helping. Ask occasional questions, to show your interest, rather than just letting him/her talk.
* Help encourage the person to recognise their urges to self-harm, what has caused it and ways to cope. Suggest distractions.
* Acknowledge that stopping self-harm instantly could be very hard and may not be the best way to go about it.
zamknij Blog
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Distractions
There are many distraction techniques that can be used to put time inbetween your actions. Here I will list which ones i know:
Talk to someone, tell them how you feel. Helplines like Breathing space or the Samaratins
Let yourself cry if you feel the need to
Squeeze ice cubes in your hands
Wear a rubber band around your wrist and when you feel the need snap it
Scream or shout
Exercise
Go for a walk
Draw/write
Listen to relaxing music
Take a hot bath
Draw where you would normally cut with a red pen
Put red food colouring into your icecubes and run them over your body
Scrunch paper into a ball and throw it
Rip up paper
Splash cold water on your face
Tense your body then release it, this should help relax you
Many of these distractions may not work, but keep trying until you find one that suits you and your need at the time
*keep watch this will be updated as time goes on
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Helplines
999
Breathing Space - 0800 838 587 (free and confidential helpline)
Samaratins - 08457 90 90 90 (24hour helpline)
Lifelink - 0141 548 15 15 (North Glasgow Area)
NHS 24 - 08454 24 24 24 24 (24 hour health service)
Rape Helpline - 08088010302
Gamcare - 08456000133
Childline - 0800 1111 (24 hour helpline for children)
Penumbra - 0131 475 2380 (Edinburgh mental health organisation)
Quarriers - 01236 827 367 (offers practical support for children, adults and families)
Basement project - 01873 856 524 (provides support groups for people who have been abused and who suffer from self harm)
MIND - 08457 766 0163 (infoline)
USEFUL WEBSITES
www.users.zetnet.co.uk/bcsw (bristol crisis centre for women)
www.selfharm.org.uk (young people and self harm websites)
www.siari.co.uk (self injury and related issues)
www.zoo.pwp.blueyonder.co.uk (mental health in the UK)
www.mind.org.uk (MIND)
www.youngminds.org.uk (young minds)
www.thecalmzone.net (CALM)
www.sane.org.uk (SANE)
www.mentalhealth.org.uk (the mental health foundation)
www.lifelink.org.uk (free support and advice to people in crisis who self harm and at risk of suicide)
www.lifesigns.org.uk (lifesigns)
www.seemescotland.org (ending the stigma of mental ill health)
www.justlikeme.org.uk (helps young people understand stigma and how to tackle it)
*more to be added
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If you are feeling Suicidal
I would like you to read these 5 statements below, it wont take long.
1 You need to hear that people do get through this -- even people who feel as badly as you are feeling now. Statistically, there is a very good chance that you are going to live. I hope that this information gives you some sense of hope.
2 Give yourself some distance. Say to yourself, "I will wait 24 hours before I do anything." Or a week. Remember that feelings and actions are two different things - just because you feel like killing yourself, doesn't mean that you have to actually do it right this minute. Put some distance between your suicidal feelings and suicidal action. Even if it's just 24 hours. You have already done it for 5 minutes, just by reading this page. You can do it for another 5 minutes by continuing to read this page. Keep going, and realize that while you still feel suicidal, you are not, at this moment, acting on it. That is very encouraging to me, and I hope it is to you.
3 People often turn to suicide because they are seeking relief from pain. Remember that relief is a feeling. And you have to be alive to feel it. You will not feel the relief you so desperately seek, if you are dead.
4 Some people will react badly to your suicidal feelings, either because they are frightened, or angry; they may actually increase your pain instead of helping you, despite their intentions, by saying or doing thoughtless things. You have to understand that their bad reactions are about their fears, not about you.
But there are people out there who can be with you in this horrible time, and will not judge you, or argue with you, or send you to a hospital, or try to talk you out of how badly you feel. They will simply care for you. Find one of them. Now. Use your 24 hours, or your week, and tell someone what's going on with you. It is okay to ask for help. Try looking in the helplines section for a number near you.
But don't give yourself the additional burden of trying to deal with this alone. Just talking about how you got to where you are, releases an awful lot of the pressure, and it might be just the additional coping resource you need to regain your balance.
5 Suicidal feelings are, in and of themselves, traumatic. After they subside, you need to continue caring for yourself. Therapy is a really good idea. So are the various self-help groups available both in your community and on the Internet
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i just want to write a statement here.
A Vision-Of-Hope 0 odpowiedziPlease remember that suicide is a permenant solution to a solvable problem!
reach out to someone and if that doesn work, reach again....theres always someone in this world who is willing to help and listen to you.
Self-help
A Vision-Of-Hope 0 odpowiedziIf you want to stop harming yourself you need to find other ways of expressing or coping with your feelings. In order to do this you need to seriously think about why you self-harm. Many people don't know why they harm themselves so it may be useful to consider:
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