The following is a copy of the e-mail sent to Nats, on Tuesday night, in an attempt to put an end to all this childish bickering and arguing that has been going on for too long. Since sending it I Alison and I have received some very nasty comments from other people that Nats has involved and a comment on one persons site made my Nats where she states she is going to kill Alison...and she reckons Alison is the one who is being threatening. As the situation has now involved me personally being 'bitched' about I am making this blog to set the records straight. If anyone wishes to find out the truth about my e-mail, which was to Nats and no-one else, then read on. Nats is the one who is blowing this out of proportion, not Alison and has brought this blog on herself. So here is the e-mail, judge for yourself and maybe you will come to the same conclusion that I have that Nats has a problem and is seeking attention, which after this she will not get from myself or Alison.

Hi Nats

Alison's mum here and yes you may think I am getting involved but I am so fed up with this whole carry on and at the end of the day there are faults on both sides. alison has admitted her part in this and yet it is still carrying on. I have seen the comments left by you regarding alison on other peoples sights and when it comes to bitching you could give lessons. The whole nonsense of comments going back and forward MUST stop.

As for involving the police, you are deluding yourself. The IPA deal with internet child pornography and there is no way on this earth that this stupid nonsense involves that subject in any way, apart from the fact that so many, seemingly intelligent young adults are acting like children. The sort of stuff that has been going on in these e-mails is so damned petty and pathetic they wouldn't waste their time.

So take it from me Alison will not be in touch with you again in any way, shape or form. As for the position that you, by your own admission, put Debbie in, that is disgraceful and not the actions of a friend. Alison did know that you had told Debbie if Alison came to the party that you wouldn't and in the interests of wanting her friend, Debbie, not to have to make that decision, she told Debbie that she wouldn't be at the party. Now the fact is that she is working on the night of the party anyway, but Alison had no intention of putting her friend in such a difficult situation. The party is about Debbie, not you and not Alison.

I think it is time for the 'children' to grow up and get a life. No more messages, no more bitching and definitely no more involving other 'friends' in this stupid carry on between the two of you. I have advised Alison to delete you from any site that she has your name on and not to open any further e-mails from you should you decide to reply. I have told her to forward them to me without reading their content. I have Also told Alison that under no circumstances is she to discuss any of this with her friends or involve them. I have spoken to Matt and Aaron and they know that I do not want any more involvement on their part as this is just exacerbating the situation.

So in a nutshell no more contact between you and Alison, ever. I hope that I have made the situation clear enough for you. If you ever decide that you are going to repay the £40 that you owe Alison from when she was your 'friend' you can send it via me. If you are not sure of the address let ME know and I will make sure you get it. I certainly hope that you will make the right choices after reading this but I will have to wait and see.

Liz