Candace Salima
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Fille, 46,
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- Statut sentimental : Marié(e)
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- Membre depuis: October 2006
- Dernière connexion: Il y a 22 semaines
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- À propos de moi
- Candace E. Salima was born right smack dab in the middle of twelve children. In a family comprised of his, mine and ours, Candace can barely remember a time when reading wasn't an integral part of her life. Her love of books, reading and writing, was born of hearing her mother read nightly from the James Herriot series about a veterinarian's mishaps in the British countryside. She thrived in a family of readers, began writing original stories at the age of eleven and has never looked back.
The daughter of a father who survived the invasion of Hitler's war machine in his homeland and a mother who is an often controversial conservative columnist, Candace spent her childhood on the back of a horse or trudging through the mountains and valleys of the American west. Now she is the author of Out of Shadows . . . Into the Light, Forged in the Refiners Fire and 13 and 0: Reflections of Champions.
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He is the love of my life and my happiness . . .
- Music
- Osmonds, Gary Morris, Ronan Tynan, Richard Marx, Bon Jovi, Country, Pop, Rock, Broadway
- Films
- The Lord of the Rings, Harry Potter, White Christmas, 5 Pennies, The Mummy, Summer Magic, Next
- Sports
- BYU Cougars
- Scared Of
- BUGS and SPIDERS
- Happiest When
- Reading and spending time with my husband and family.
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From Dream a little dream . . . Darkest Before the Dawn
On the morning of September 11, 2001, the United States of America was attacked on her own soil. We weren't attacked by another country, but by a faction of fanatics who have decided they must rid the world of Christians, democracy, free enterprises and hope. They did not attack military installations but rather, chose to ravage civilian targets. I don't bring this up to delve in the politics of war, but to speak of what happened in America thereafter.
We were a nation in shock. So many innocents, from so many countries, lost their lives that day. And so many more paid ultimate prices later when their health was affected by the toxic air. So many first responders lost their lives or became terminally ill. Children were without fathers and mothers. Fathers and mothers lost their sons and daughters. Heroes were born that day, and heroes died that day. And our nation wept.
Americans flocked, enmasse, to churches across the nation. They mourned, they wept and they plead with a God they hadn't spoken to in decades for surcease from the pain. For three to six months, America's churches were full and then people forgot and began to find better things to do on Sunday again.
Seven years later, we still face war torn disaster after natural disaster wracking the world. People across the globe have opened their hearts and their wallets, even traveling to devastated nations in order to help a people whose worlds have been turned upside down. However, we have become disaster weary, giving nowhere nearly as much as we have in the past to the countries of Myanmar and China. Why is that?
Well, as far as Myanmar is concerned, the Myanmar military is taking every supply being sent to that ravaged nation and using it for themselves. The death tolls amongst her citizens rises daily. And it is difficult to donate to a country's military when her people are dying. So that one, I actually understand.
As to China, a communist regime, who allows her citizens to have only one children. Hundreds of thousands of them lost that "one" child to this recent earthquake. My heart literally aches for the mothers and fathers who no longer have that one bright hope left in their lives. Their families are at an end. Yet another nation devastated by natural disaster. And yes, this Sunday I'm adding a little extra to Humanitarian, Fast Offering and Welfare when I pay my tithing. At least I know that needed supplies are definitely making their way to these devastated people.
Here in our nation we have faced earthquakes, fires, hurricanes and tornadoes and the American people continue to give of their money and their time in order to help their fellow citizens in need. It is an admirable quality of the American people who gave $295 billion in charitable donations last year, 4% of which went overseas, according to Glenn Beck.
But when it comes right down to it: When the rain has stopped, the waters have dropped, the ground has stopped shaking and the wind has passed on . . . what do you, as an individual, have left. Indeed, times of tragedy always bring us back to our Lord Jesus Christ. Almost all people turn to Him when their lives are out of control.
But looking at the world today, I see people who have stayed on that path to Jesus Christ. And yes, they deal with travesty, tragedy, sorrow, illness, disease and pain, but their inner core remains strong and hopeful. Why is that? Because when clinging to the Iron Rod, which is the word of God, there is a hope instilled in your heart and spirit that can only be killed by you. If Jesus Christ is real to you, there is a Light that cannot be extinguished.
So truly, it may be darkest before the dawn, but remember: Those who remain in Christ will also have a core strength which will carry them through the darkest nights. If it takes a day and a night kneeling in prayer to draw on that strength, then that is what we must do. If it takes turning off the television or computer and falling to our knees a0 commentaires 547 jours
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Alvin's Kidney Transplant in April 15th
On April 15th, at 9:30 in the morning, Alvin will be checking into the Intermountain Medical Center in Murray, Utah for a kidney transplant. He will be in the hospital for 5 to 7 days, on the tenth floor. Any of you who would like to be here, please let me know and I'll do what I can to find accommodations for you.
As many of you may or may not know, it is a beautiful woman who was a Laurel when I was the Young Women President who is giving Alvin her kidney. Her generosity and gift of life is tremendous and Alvin and I pray daily that the windows of heaven have opened and blessings and protections poured out upon her and her sweet family. Tara's husband Billy returns from Baghdad at the end of May. She wants, and indeed needs, to be completely healed by then and so it is necessary this surgery take place this month. That is why April 15th was chosen.
Alvin and I have been working out, and are very grateful to Gold's Gym for making things work for us so that Alvin could work out when he was feeling good, no matter what time of the day or night. Because of this we've been getting in a minimum of 4 workouts a week. Sometimes we can go for 45 minutes to an hour, sometimes just 20 or 30 minutes. It truly depends what Alvin has had to do the day before. He's cut out the pop and sweets and is eating very healthy now, within the limits of his kidney dictated diet. He has continued to lose weight and I am so proud of him. But because of time constraints he has not been able to lose everything he needed to. (He's lost 20 pounds in the last four weeks, but now they want another 30 gone before the surgery.)
We are very excited about the upcoming transplant, and it is indeed the prayers offered by many of you which have brought this about. When Alvin and I spoke to our social worker (Mark) and the transplant team we were assured everything was covered by Alvin's insurance and Medicare. We learned we would not have to pay a dime for the transplant. Which is really good, because the $250,000 price put me into sticker shock that took a couple of days to come out of. Since that time, some added expenses have shown, most of which we've been able to take care of--thank heavens.
This is probably the most difficult email I will ever write. When the new kidney is put in Alvin it will be placed right behind the abdominal wall. Any excess weight on the stomach can cause damage to the new kidney, which is why Alvin and I have been working so hard to get that last 50 pounds off him. As many of you know, he was at 425 when we began working out. He is now at 290. I am so incredibly proud of him! He's worked so hard to get himself in the position where he could get the transplant.
He still has 50 pounds to go, he's lost weight from everywhere and all that's left is the trunk of his body, which has also reduced in size, drastically. But not enough. The transplant team is insisting that they perform a tummy tuck to remove the remaining weight before they implant the new kidney. They will be doing both at the same time. Or rather, tummy tuck and then they will immediately put the new kidney in before they close up. This part is not covered by the insurance, although we have tried. They have reduced the cost to $2,500, which, as I understand it, is a screaming deal. Had we had a little more time we could have worked things out so that we would have these funds. But we do not have the time.
As I said, this is the most difficult thing I have ever had to ask. I have set up a Paypal Account specifically for this effort to raise the rest of the funds. Some of you have been very generous already and Alvin and I are eternally in your debt. I know times are tight right now and so if donating anything is beyond your means at this time, please know that we are still grateful for the great love you have for Alvin and the prayers you offer on his behalf. But if you are able to donate $5, $10, $15, $25 or more, we will be grateful for every dollar.
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My Blog
I blog at http://candacesalima.blogspot.com so check things out there. I'm also going to start blogging for a new company covering three different LDS topics. So, just check things out there and you'll see a daily post from me on a variety of subjects.0 commentaires 815 jours
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Candace SalimaIl y a 74 semainesAlvin is back to work now. Boy, we had trouble keeping him in the house when he was supposed to be chilling. He's so funny. Although he's been so sick, he's abnormally strong so he just keeps plugging along.
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Mili GaleaiIl y a 76 semainesHi Candace....sorry it's taken me so long to reply.....thanks for updating us on Alvin....i'm so glad he's doing okay.....say hello and give him our luv.....and sasa him when he sneaks out again..lol... everyone here is alright....just tryin to entertain the kids during summer break....thanks again for keeping in touch.... luv and miss you guys!!!
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Candace SalimaIl y a 78 semaines
Hey Wendy --glad you dropped by. Hope all is going well for you. How did your basketball team do this last year?
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Candace SalimaIl y a 78 semaines
Mili - we're hoping to go visit the 9th ward on the first of August. That'll be the end of Alvin's 90-day home restriction for his transplant. We will definitely chase the "class" off the couches. You guys were so much fun. We miss you!
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Candace SalimaIl y a 78 semaines
Hi Penny!
I didn't know you were home. Get my cell number from your father and give me a call. You, your mom and I have got to go get some breakfast and get a pedicure or something!
Uncle is doing great! The kidney transplant was a success and it is working incredibly well. He's struggling to heal from the other surgery they insisted he have at the same time. But he's up and around and doing great! We'll drop by the Samoan ward soon. Once he's passed the severe anti-rejection phase. (August for that one.)
We love you and are so proud of you college girl!
Love
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Penny AnaeIl y a 78 semainesHI AUNTY! i'm back in utah... well have been for about 3 weeks now and i still havent seen you guys! ha ha , i just wanted to come say hi and hopefully i'll see you around! love you aunts!
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Il y a 85 semaines
Penny Anae
HAHAHAHHAHA thanks aunty i'll make sure not to scare your poor missionary son when he gets here! hahah, no he'll have alot of fun this school is the BOMB! but other than that everything here is going good! school is almost finished for this semester and then i get to come home! YEAh hahah i'm excited for that. Well wish uncle all my love and hope you guys are doing well! Thanks for the write-back aunts! kay then take care
love you!
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Il y a 92 semaines
Penny Anae
hahaha, yeah i did! i was like OH MY GOSH! Aunty Wendy has one, and then i saw yours! but thanks for adding me aunty! yup all graduated. and now in little laie! going to school out here and i love it! how are you aunty? oh my gosh, that reminds me.... i picked up your book you did on BYU football! it was soooo awesome! i loved it! i still have a copy in my room, just thought i'd tell you that. hahaha. love you aunty! take care!
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BLessed And HumbledIl y a 110 semainesHey there Candace,
well,looking forward to seeing you all at the wedding this wkend..I can hardly wait to get together with everybody....it's going to be a real nice reunion w/everbody......ok,have a great week and take care......
love ya,
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Aliitasi SaumaniIl y a 112 semainesCandace,
it is so good to hear from you... i miss you guys, you know how it is, everyone is busy with their lives... i'm doing good, just work and more work... how are you two.. sorry for the delay in responding. I hardly come on here, once in a long while...but its a great way to keep in touch with everyone... please send alvin my love and you too... thanks for keeping in touch... love, me. -
Mili GaleaiIl y a 113 semaines
Aloha Candace!
Thanks for visiting my Bebo page...I didn't know you guys went back to the palagi ward.. but yes when you visit Orem 9th please chase all those people in our unofficial class off da couches and to class..lol...so off!!
Anyways, hope all is well...oh yah!! GO COUGS!!
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AlvinSa5Il y a 113 semainesHi Honey,
It's 3:15 in the morning and I just want to leave you a message:
I AM SO LUFF TO YOU!! Hwey I gotta bust some fob stuff once in a while.
See you in a bit,
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Losa Willis-Te'oIl y a 114 semainesO.k., you and Alvin crack me up with all your comments on each other's pages. (smile). I love it! So good to hear from you. You are so talented--I love reading all about what you are up to--amazing woman! Anyway, can't wait to see you and Alvin at Nise's wedding! Have a GREAT day!
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AlvinSa5Il y a 114 semaines
Good Morning Sweetheart,
Have a nice day. I'm on my way home from work so see you then.
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AlvinSa5Il y a 114 semaines
Hello Beloved,
So here I am at work and I miss you very much. I appreciate all you do for me and how much you love me. I know things are a little tough right now, but if I wanted someone to go through the tough times with, I am glad it's you. Soon, things will be better. I know they will.
As you wake up tomorrow morning, know that I love you and look forward to seeing you.
Forever yours,
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BLessed And HumbledIl y a 114 semaines
Hey Candance,
It was so good to see you both over the wkend...my daughter had a blast with you....I can't wait to see everybody in October for Nise's wedding.......Ok,take care and I'll be seein' ya soon.....
love ya,
tina -
Il y a 115 semaines
Marilyn
Although i love parties...i did not party. My definition of doing something special, is like going to Home Depot or Lowes.
Krystal my 24 yr. old daughter took me out for lunch. I think that was her present.LOL!! My hubby made it possible for me to have some "me" time...need that every now and again. I'm working on one of my dreams, and hoping one day to see it to or through fruition.
Hope i didn't bore you with b-day details. Anyhooz...thanks for listening
Love ya and ttyl's
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MarilynIl y a 115 semaines
Aww...That is so sweet! Thank you for your love and best wishes.
I was wondering why my nieces was asking about a party.
I can't believe i overlooked that one...lol!! Jus' another senior moment! lol!!
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Bernz TalanoaIl y a 116 semainesHi Candace,
Definitely a great tool for communication n saving on long distance calls hehe. Well, please say hi to my dear brother who i miss dearly and hope he's doing good. Hope to see u all next month, i leave tonight to Upolu Samoa for the SPG games, tell brother Solrkush is taking Fiji to be part of the closing ceremony and we're doing a free concert for our people right after the games on Apia Stadium. We're excited cause the games haven't been there in 20 yrs. and we get to be part of history yipee! Well love ya both till den..Bernz
On April 15th, at 9:30 in the morning, Alvin will be checking into the Intermountain Medical Center in Murray, Utah for a kidney transplant. He will be in the hospital for 5 to 7 days, on the tenth floor.
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