Loyalty is everything, in a real friendship, in family and with your other half, i guess the soul mate is the one that will be loyal to you no matter what, the one that will never walk away even if there is no one left on your side she will stand by you knowing you would do it for her, ,

That is what you see in the kingkong clip in my video clip of kingkong.he standz by her till the very last second,gives it everything,protecting her meanz everything to him..legend..


I have been lucky to experience that at such a young age, having some1 so amazing that they always put me first and would do anything for me, i learned so much from this amazing lady, she was a few years older then me..

She had everything i wanted in my girl, sweet, sexy, funny,strong,opinionated,private,S
 o old fashioned which i admire and liked about her, her sense of values and morals were equal to mine if not stronger, she was so faithful and loyal to me and i never doubted that for a second while we were together,

This girl was super hot and that's coming from me, in a non arrogant way i will say my standards are super high and the handful of girlfriends i have had most guys would dream of being with..


She was different to to the rest, I'm gonna generalize and say that the hotter the girl is the more demanding she is, the more maintenance she has, she tests you more often, she will try to push her luck more,she is really hot and she knows it, she uses that to get what she wants, lets be honest that does work with most GUYS YOU START GIVING IN AND YOUR DAYS ARE NUMBERED.

This girl wasn't like that, she didn't expect anything from me apart from me being myself,

i seen some of the guys that would try so hard to get her attention, most these guys would get any girl they wanted lol , but still never once the she give me a reason to doubt her, the way she carried herself, so much self respect and pride, you could see it in her even if you didn't know her,

This girl had it all, apart from all the real things i mentioned above she also had the car, house, very very successful career,very high up in her company with a masters degree to,these things didn't mean so much to me at the time,i was getting ready to have that,

she could have had anyone at the time, she was in her late 20z, i was a poor student, she was so used to fine dining before we were together,at the time i was living away from home in a different city.


when we went out she would be so thoughtful about me and my pride, she could go to the most expensive places and eat what she want and spend as much money as she wanted but she never complained about the local Italian or my cooking was always good enough, she realized very quickly that Persian pride is very hard to tame, i would rather not go out at all if i couldn't pay for dinner or a movie or drinks, its not about doing it to be nice or trying to impress a girl for me i like doing it cause simply I'm old fashioned like that,
guy should pay and there is no other way...
even thou it stopped her from going to the really posh places expensive places, she was amazing enough to understand my pride is important to me even thou i don't think she agreed with that mentality of mine about paying she let it go for me,,,

she learned to live with it.. its hard making a strong woman do something she does not like to do... that was amazing, i have not been with someone that has given to me as much as this girl had before and i will never forget it.. she knew i was gonna have all that one day, but not when im a student..

She was my best friend and we had the best time in the few short years we were together, it was so amazing to have someone that you know would do anything for you cause she knew i would do it for her and i did... good times..

i moved back home after my studies. my oldman missed me 2 much lol. Family comes first always, we did long distance for over a year.. i just started doin

NEW YEAR IS ALMOST HERE>>> its 16.35 31/12/06, wrote this for someone very important to me and all my close friends...
Written for a friend at a time of need... i hope this helps you and more importantly helps them understand what friendship is...

The things i write below are the values i hold in my life and rules that i do not break, I'm very lucky to have some real true friends in my life and i think a lot comes down to what i expect of them and what i give back to them, always give them as much as possible because they would do the same for me.. these friends were real hard to find..

A true friend is someone that i can always count on to be there for me no matter what...

A true friend will drop things for me and go out there way to help me, a true friend is genuine and real..

A true friend is someone that i can go to for advice and opinion because i know they want the best for me...

A true friend is someone that trusts me and someone that i trust with
important things in my life.

A true friend is someone who is there for you when they would rather be someplace else.
A true friend wont walk away and drop me as soon as something is wrong..

A true friend will open my eyes, make me examine, encourage me to grow..

A true friend is the one who brings out the best in me, my best friend.

A true friend will stand by my side in a time of need and take every step with me, i will watch there back and they do same for me..

A true friend will come to my rescue when I'm out numbered and take a blow for me
even thou he or she knew they were walking into a losing battle whether its physical or verbal.

A true friend wont lose faith and doubt you..

A real friend wont judge you on what others tell you unless its family or someone they really trust..

A real friend wont make irrational decisions regarding your friendship and drop you as soon as a he hits an obstacle..

A real friend deserves a second chance, they will make it up to you, you can forgive but don't forget...

A true friend wont get more then two chance because they are not real and not a friend, it will be to hard to forget and impossible to forgive..

A true friend will hold there head high and admit they made a mistake and say sorry because your friendship is important to them..


True friendship is when two friends can walk in opposite directions, yet remain side by side....

These friends will alwayz be there no matter what happens dont lose them cause they are so hard to find..