Care of Matt.. thanks! hehe

To the girls,

Don't assume that guys won't care where you are, because we do.
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IT MAKES US FEEL SO SECURE TO KNOW THAT OUR GIRLFRIEND ISNT OFF FLIRTING WITH GUYS WE'VE NEVER HEARD OF!!
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We don't care if you talk to other guys.

We don't care if you're friends with other guys.

But when you're sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room and you jump up and tackle him, without even introducing us, yeah, it pisses us off.

It doesn't help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without even acknowledging the fact that we're still there.
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Also, when we tell you you're pretty/ beautiful/ gorgeous/ cute/ stunning, we freaking mean it.

Don't tell us we're wrong.

We'll stop trying to convince you.

The sexiest thing about a girl is confidence.
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Yeah, you can quote me.
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Don't be mad when we hold the door open.
Smile and say "thank you."

LET US PAY FOR YOU!

DON'T "FEEL BAD"

We enjoy doing it.

It's expected.

Smile and say - everybody together now - "thank you."
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Kiss us when no one's watching.

If you kiss us when you know nobody's looking we'll be more impressed.
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You don't have to get dressed up for us.

If we're going out with you in the first place, you don't have to feel the need to wear the shortest skirt you have, put on every kind of makeup you own.

We like you for WHO you are and not WHAT you are.

honestly, i think a girl looks more beautiful when she's just in her pj's. not all dolled up
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don't flirt with guys when were not with you.
We have eyes everywhere.
And when we find out, we're pissed.

Not necessarily with the guys you flirted with, more-so with YOU.
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Don't take everything we say seriously.

Sarcasm is a beautiful thing. See the beauty in it.

Don't get angry easily.
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Stop using magazines/media as your bible.

Don't talk about how hot Morris Chesnutt, Brad Pitt, or Jesse McCartny is in front of us.

It's boring, and we don't care.
You have girlfriends for that.
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Whatever happened to the word "handsome"/"beautiful"

I'd be utterly stunned by a girl who greeted me with "Hey
handsome!" instead of "Hey baby/ stud/ cutie/ sexy" or whatever else you can think of.

on the other hand im not sayin i woulndnt like it ether ; )
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Girls, I cannot stress this enough:
IF YOU AREN'T BEING TREATED RIGHT BY A GUY, DON'T WAIT FOR HIM TO CHANGE. DITCH HIS SORRY, DISGRACE-TO-THE-MALE-POPULATION ASS, AND FIND SOMEONE WHO WILL TREAT YOU WITH UTTER RESPECT


Someone who will honor your morals.

Someone who will make you smile when you're at your lowest.

Someone who will care for you even when you make mistakes.

Someone who will love you, no matter how bad you make them feel.

Someone who will stop what theyre doing just to look you in the
eyes....and say "i love you" ...



....AND ACTUALLY MEAN IT!

Give the nice guys a chance


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Every Guy who isn't a jerk will agree with this, so we hope that all the girls that read this will as well

when life was so easy that all i had to do was turn over and see everything i wanted..right there.

but yeah. all i have is memories. and they hurt. hurt to think about. hurt to remember.

memories last longer anyway.

Life is so much harder when you try to make it easier. When you try to cut out the things in your life that make it difficult...
when you try to be happy for once, it seems everyone is out to get you
when you want to be free, somethng manages to pull you down
when life gives you lemons...i say throw them back and say i dont like lemons! gimme something i do like damnit!

when you are at ur wits end and theres nothing left but to sit on the ground in the supermarket and cry...

when you stay at home scared of going out just in case you might see people you dont want to

when u feel caged..but no-one is stopping you from leaving
when u want to run and hide but everyone is making you so much more obvious and everyone is aware of your every move

when people tell you that you are doing everything wrong, when you've finally decided what you want to do with your life for once

when all you ever wanted was to be happy, nothing goes right and it all ends up messed up.

when all you wanted was a true friend, someone who you could depend on at a drop of a hat...and that person isnt who you expected it to be...

when life tells you your nothing..and to give up...you carry on..just to see if there is a light at the end of the tunnel. crawling with your very last big of energy.

when you wake up and the sun is actually shining...and you feel a little better.

when you see your friends in a crowded room being hapy and smiling and getting along with everyone

when u cant let go of certain memories that keep bringing you down

life is always going to push you harder..to see if you'll jump

Im sick of jumping. I've been hurt enough. Been put through more than most people eever have to deal with and im only 21.

I lived to tell the tale.

I'm going to write a book. maybe then i can have peace.

all i want is to be happy. to find love... to be loved. and appreciated.

i want freedom and security.

i want my life to be filled with awesome memories...so i can look back and be proud of what ive achieved, maybe have a few regrets..

but right now. ive only done one really truly bad thing in all my life. and well. i cant ever change that. i was stupid and young. no point talking about it,

i havent done anything wrong. im growing up. im realising that people arent what they used to be and will never be that again.

im realising i can trust those that have hurt me before because I know what theyre capable of now. never truly trust them...always be watching my back. but i can be civil to those i decided to let back into my life.

i will never ever let anyone hurt me again. no way. Im going to be strong and live my life the way i want to... regrets and all.

i wish some memories wouldnt be as vivid as they are...and other memories would be forgotten.

i cant wait to graduate. i did this for me..and im going to carry on to do things the way i want to.

no-one will ever understand what Ive been through. no-one ever could. because theyre all too stupid...and have never been through this.

its ridiculous to the extreme and it makes me shake with anger. im a tsunami ready to drown everything in sight.