You know you found real love when your soulmate is vigorously thinking of ways to help and please you and they are concerned about your happiness without the thought of what they will get in return....they are satisfied by giving love and not just recieving it because your happiness is there main concern....they love you unconditionally and are willing to risk everything and become absouletly vulnerable.....your soulmate is aware of your faults and are able to accept some imperfections.... when you make a foolish mistake they are not angry, hurt, or upset instead they encourage and help you learn from your mistakes....they stand by you in a crisis and help you get through.....your soulmate isnt afraid to keep it real, they will tell you what you need to hear and not what you want to hear.....they support, respect, and encourage your hopes and dreams....they make you feel both safe and comfortable....your soulmate isnt ashamed or concerned of what others think about you, but they accept and love you for who you are....they appreciate the simple things you do for them....they bring joy into your life and can turn your frown into a smile....you know you found real love when you pray for that person more than you pray for yourself...you go to bed thinking of them and you wake up thinking of them......

1. Don`t flirt with other girls. It makes me feel like I`m not good enough for you. I feel like I did something wrong so you are making up for it with another girl.

2. I`m not a toy. Don`t just have your fun with me and drop me. I`m serious about things. That`s just mean and I will spend days wondering what I ever did wrong.

3. Pur your arms around my waist firmly but gently, holding me close to you. If you can, smell my hair! For most girls, we try to succeed in making it smell and look good! Plus, we know you love the smell, why try to sneak around?

4. If you`ve done something wrong, fess up. Tell me before I have to ask you about it. Trust me, when I ask, I will be twice as angry, and that`s just if you tell the truth. Lie to me and you can pretty much send your death wish.

5. When I say I love you, I mean it. I`m not willing to tell just anyone that. My heart is gentle and it`s very hard to trust guys, and it takes time. Don`t worry if you tell me you love me and I don`t say it back right away. I do, im just thinking about how sweet it was that you said it first. And if it takes a day or two, im not deciding, im figuring out how I can prove it.

6. Know that I like it when you tickle me. It makes me laugh and reminds me that you know that exact spot that makes me cry im laughing so hard. It`s cute.

7. Surprise me. Call before you`re at the door, make sure you have good timing. Tell me to look out the window, or open the door. I`ll see you and hang up and run to your side. Bring flowers for now reason. Give me candy when im down, that always works! Show up just to kiss us and see us smile.

8. Show me how much you love me. That doesn`t mean show me how bad you want to have sex. I`m not a walking bed. (So, in other words, im not just an easy lay walking around.) I love it when you whisper in my ear, or breath on my neck. I like it when you kiss under our jaw down my neck, resting your head on my shoulder. I feel like im repaying you for every time I rest on you.

9. If your friends think it`s cool to have sex, it doesn`t mean I do. I have plans for my life. And if not, im still not ready to handle that kind of pressure. Being in a relationship is a lot of responsibility itself, and having sex just means we have to be more committed. Wait until im ready. If you pressure me, im going to get mad and I might not ever have sex with you. (Another way to put it: I will dump you, no matter how much it hurts.)

10. Last, but not least and the most important of all, love me. With all of your heart, love me. Love me like there`s no one else out there for you, because as far as you know, there isn`t. Don`t doubt my unconditional love for you. Kiss me like you`ve never kissed before. Hold me like no one could fit more perfectly in your arms. Love me like no one could fill that hold that I do any better. Look past the flaws that I constantly point out and even reject them. When I say I look fat or ugly, reject it instantly and remind me how beautiful I am. Point out something about me you love. Think about me before anyone else.

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