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TO WRITE LOVE ON HER ARMS by Jamie Tworkowski

Pedro the Lion is loud in the speakers, and the city waits just outside our open windows. She sits and sings, legs crossed in the passenger seat, her pretty voice hiding in the volume. Music is a safe place and Pedro is her favorite. It hits me that she won't see this skyline for several weeks, and we will be without her. I lean forward, knowing this will be written, and I ask what she'd say if her story had an audience. She smiles. "Tell them to look up. Tell them to remember the stars."

I would rather write her a song, because songs don't wait to resolve, and because songs mean so much to her. Stories wait for endings, but songs are brave things bold enough to sing when all they know is darkness. These words, like most words, will be written next to midnight, between hurricane and harbor, as both claim to save her.

Renee is 19. When I meet her, cocaine is fresh in her system. She hasn't slept in 36 hours and she won't for another 24. It is a familiar blur of coke, pot, pills and alcohol. She has agreed to meet us, to listen and to let us pray. We ask Renee to come with us, to leave this broken night. She says she'll go to rehab tomorrow, but she isn't ready now. It is too great a change. We pray and say goodbye and it is hard to leave without her.

She has known such great pain; haunted dreams as a child, the near-constant presence of evil ever since. She has felt the touch of awful naked men, battled depression and addiction, and attempted suicide. Her arms remember razor blades, fifty scars that speak of self-inflicted wounds. Six hours after I meet her, she is feeling trapped, two groups of "friends" offering opposite ideas. Everyone is asleep. The sun is rising. She drinks long from a bottle of liquor, takes a razor blade from the table and locks herself in the bathroom. She cuts herself, using the blade to write "FUCK UP" large across her left forearm.

The nurse at the treatment center finds the wound several hours later. The center has no detox, names her too great a risk, and does not accept her. For the next five days, she is ours to love. We become her hospital and the possibility of healing fills our living room with life. It is unspoken and there are only a few of us, but we will be her church, the body of Christ coming alive to meet her needs, to write love on her arms.

She is full of contrast, more alive and closer to death than anyone I've known, like a Johnny Cash song or some theatre star. She owns attitude and humor beyond her 19 years, and when she tells me her story, she is humble and quiet and kind, shaped by the pain of a hundred lifetimes. I sit privileged but breaking as she shares. Her life has been so dark yet there is some soft hope in her words, and on consecutive evenings, I watch the prettiest girls in the room tell her that she's beautiful. I think it's God reminding her.

I've never walked this road, but I decide that if we're going to run a five-day rehab, it is going to be the coolest in the country. It is going to be rock and roll. We start with the basics; lots of fun, too much Starbucks and way too many cigarettes.

Thursday night she is in the balcony for Band Marino, Orlando's finest. They are indie-folk-fabulous, a movement disguised as a circus. She loves them and she smiles when I point out the A&R man from Atlantic Europe, in town from London just to catch this show.

She is in good seats when the Magic beat the Sonics the next night, screaming like a lifelong fan with every Dwight Howard dunk. On the way home, we stop

IF YOUR LIFE WAS A MOVIE, WHAT WOULD THE SOUNDTRACK BE?
So, here's how it works:
1. Open your library (iTunes, Winamp, Media Player, iPod, etc)
2. Put it on shuffle
3. Press play
4. For every question, type the song that's playing
5. When you go to a new question, press the next button
6. Don't lie and try to pretend your cool...

Opening Credits:
Things I'll never say- Avril Lavigne

Waking Up:
Morning Glory- Oasis lol

Monday:
All These Things That I've Done- The Killers

Fight Song:
Like Toy Soldiers- Eminem

Breaking up:
Suddenly I See- KT Tunstall

Prom:
Beautiful Soul- Jesse McCartney

Life:
Numb/Encore- Jay Z/Linkin Park

Mental Breakdown:
No Tomorrow- Orson

Driving:
Man Overboard- Blink 182 < luv tht song!

Flashback:
Good Riddance- Green Day

Getting Back Together:
Yesterday Threw Everythin At Me- Athlete

Wedding:
Pure Shores- All Saints

Birth of Child:
You're All I Have- Snow Patrol

Final Battle:
Pressure- Paramore

Death Scene:
Under The Bridge- Red Hot Chili Peppers

Funeral Song:
All The Small Things- Blink 182

End Credits:
Since You've Been Gone- Rainbow

How many men does it take to screw in a light bulb?
One! men will screw anything

How does a man take a bubble bath?
He eats beans for dinner.

What is a man's idea of foreplay?
A half hour of begging.

How can you tell if a man's sexually aroused?
He's breathing.

How do you save a man from drowning?
Take your foot off his head.

What do men and beer bottles have in common?
They're both empty from the neck up.

How are men and parking spots alike?
The good ones are always taken and the rest are handicapped.

What is a man's idea of helping with the housework?
Lifting his leg so you can vacuum.

Do you know why bankers are good lovers?
They know the penalty for early withdrawal.

Why are men like laxatives?
They irritate the shit out of you.

Why do men name their penises?
They want to be on a first name basis with the one that makes all the decisions.

What is gross stupidity?
144 men in one room.

Why were men given larger brains than dogs?
So they wouldn't hump women's legs at cocktail parties.

How do men sort their laundry?
"Dirty" and "Dirty but wearable"

Why did God give men legs?
So their brains woodnt drag across the floor.

Why do men have holes in their penises?
So they can be open minded

How is a man like a snowstorm?
You don't know when he's coming, how many inches you'll get, or how long it will last

How can you tell that soap operas are fictional?
In real life, men aren't affectionate in bed.

What should you give a man who has everything?
A woman to show him how to work it.

Why do black widow spiders kill their mates after mating?
To stop the snoring before it starts.

How does a man show that he is planning for the future?
He buys 2 cases of beer instead of one.

How is Colonel Sanders like the typical man ?
All he's concerned with is legs, breasts, and thighs.

What makes men chase women who they have no intention of marrying?
The same instinct that makes dogs chase cars they have no intention to drive.

What do you do with a bachelor who thinks he's God's gift to women?
Exchange him.

Why do bachelors like smart women?
Opposites attract.

How are husbands like lawn mowers?
They're hard to get started, they emit noxious odors, and half the time they don't work.

Why do men find it difficult to make eye contact?
Breasts don't have eyes.

What is the thinnest book in the world?
What men know about women.

Why are blonde jokes so short?
So men can remember them.

Why are men like floor tiles?
If you lay 'em right the first time, you can walk on 'em for years.

Why is it difficult to find men who are sensitive, caring and good looking?
They all already have boyfriends.