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~The heart of a ME is so hidden in the heart of GOD, that a man must seek God to find it~
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3 Things that make me, ME...MY TEAM, MY FAITH AND MY DREAMS:D

I am a dreamer. Always hav been, always will be. Loviani as i know her, wud cease 2exist if she were 2stop dreaming. TO DREAM is a gift frm God. By FAITH I chose 2unwrap it nd ask'd him hw he would want me 2use it. Not nly 4MY TEAM but his WILL...nw i luk owt 4da lessons as he teaches me nd guides me along 2dat waking moment....wen DREAMS, become REALITY.

"Champions aren't made in gyms, champions are made from something they have deep inside them - a desire, a dream, a vision. They have to have last-minute stamina, they have to be a little faster, they have to have the skill and the will. But the will must be stronger than the skill." MUHAMMAD ALI

Livin' the HYPE means striving to reach our greatest potential in order to recreate a world of endless possibilities for all our youth!

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[H[elping [Y]outh [P]ursue [E]mancipation!
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The H.Y.P.E. (Helping Youth Pursue Emancipation)Movement’s primary mission is to encourage young people to live their dreams by emancipating their minds from all barriers that hold them back from pursuing their greatest potential. We seek to work collectively to deconstruct structural oppression, oppose inequity and to break free from all destructive negativity as we move toward a future of endless possibilities for all young people regardless of race, class and gender. We further challenge all who are committed to the H.Y.P.E. Movement to become creators of social change and advocates for social justice.
~Its Purpose~
This is a Youth Liberation Movement encouraging youth to free their minds/imaginations from any limitations they have set on themselves or feel society has placed on them and pursue their own talents and aspirations to create something positive.
~Why Da Black Wrist Band?~
The color black symbolizes shadows. It’s easy for our youth to feel hidden or unseen standing in the shadow of authority, elders, community leaders and those they look up to. The youth have so much to offer our community (music, art, literature, ideas, etc.) but are often left without an open positive space to share it.
~Hw Is Dis Significant?~
By acknowledging that you are in the shadows, you can then pull yourself out of the shadows and allow yourself to be seen. You are no longer in the shadow but are now determined to shine. Open your mind and allow your talents to take you where you truly want to go. Whatever your goals and aspirations may be you must now recognize your potential to achieve them.
~Why a Wrist Band?~
The significance of the wristband is a constant reminder of your own liberation in breaking free from negative stereotypes and limitations but also that you now have the opportunity to help pull others out of the shadows as well.
~What Do I Have To Do?~
Live the HYPE! By wearing the HYPE wristband, you are acknowledging that you can do or become whatever it is you set your mind to. You also agree to pursue your goal in a positive way that will benefit yourself as well as your community. Pursue your passion and don't let anyone/anything stop you.

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  • **NEW MOON** TO ME...

    I heard many conflicting reviews about New Moon. I was'nt expecting anything, really. I arrived at the cinema late. Once I sat down the lights dropped and faded. It was a very young crowd there. There were boys standing up in the front having a popcorn fight. It was noisey than usual. I remembered school had finished and NEW MOON was a movie that had attracted more of the younger crowd. On the left of me about 5 seats away sat young adults probably aged 19-23yrs old. On my left hand side was a coulpe around 19-21yrs old. Striahgt away I knew it was'nt going to be so quiet, like it should be when your at the movies. As soon as Edward spoke, the clown next to me started talking back to Edward. When the first song started, he started singing it, like harmonising it too. His voice was'nt bad, though. There was a scene when Edward kisses Bella. He starts making these moaning and groaning noises. I could hear his girlfriend telling him to be quiet and laughing. I decided to just block him out and watch the movie.

    I was swept off my feet by this Edward character. First of all he has this Love for Bella that is beyond Superficial Love. Her blood tickles his senses and yet he has this self control and self mastery over himself, motivated by his deep and true love for her. He wants her so bad but loves her enough to hold back. I know what its like to be young and impatient. Bella Shows this part of her early in the movie by begging Edward to let her become a vampire. She wants to be with him forever. She loves him, but in a different way. She wants to express he wants to hold back. He decides to move away from her instead of putting her life in danger. It reminds me of the movie NOTEBOOK when Noah decides to break it off, even though it was killing him inside, he loved her enough to do what he thought was best for her. Edward leaves. Bella Becomes reckless and suicidal. Edward is still around in spirit to watch over her and protect her. Still this is not good enought for Bella. He continues to stay strong, until he thinks Bella is dead. He no longer wants to live for eternity and would rather die. She comes and saves his life. In this scene, the love they share is tested. Bella Lays her life on the line for Edward. It shows a pure love of unselfishness. I really believe this is why she was able to resist thier powers. Anyway, things happen and they decide that it is best to accept Bella as a vampire. He's happy, shes happy. He asks her to wait 5yrs or 3yrs but she cant wait. She asks him to be the one that changes her. I knew he would accept but I never expected he would first ask her to marry him.

    To me, having Bella beg Edward to change her represented sex or breaking the law of chastity. In a way you do suffer a death, if done incorrectly. You suffer spiritual death. Her blood was like temptation. Edward was ALWAYS tempted when being around BELLA. But because he loved her so much, truly loved her, he held back. He used self control. He never wanted to hurt her in ANY kind of way or form. I will never forget Bishop Cocker saying this in sacrament meeting last month. True Love does not want to hurt you in any way. I love the part with Edwards dad, taking care of Bella when she was bleeding. She asks him how are you able to control yourself while you patch my wounds up? He says through years of practice. It's true. Practice makes perfect. At the end when Bella asks Edward to be the one to change her, he asks her can you wait for me 5yrs or 3yrs? Its hard when you just want to be with someone all the time, to wait even one day. I start thinking of all these little messages that I am picking up in the movie and think I'm just being silly.....until Edward says he will be the one to change her on one condition.....that she marry him. That there, seals it for me. It is a story about true love and keeping the law of chastity...hehehe They marry and are sealed for eternity by him changing her lol.

    **Note to my nieces and nephews **

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  • IF U DONT LOOK OUT FOR IT, YOU'LL MISS IT!

    There are 3 Things I look out for everyday. The learning helps grow my spirit, the Answers strengthen my love and gratitude for the savior and the Angels do both those things but also gives me hope and love for humanity.

    Here they are....

    1/ THE LESSONS- I have had so many opportunities where I was able to learn a lesson from things that may have happened during the day.

    2/ ANSWERS- When I pray, I make sure I look out for the answers. Prayer is like a 2 way conversation yanno, You don't just call a friend and then hang up after you have said all you want. So yes I ALWAYS look out for the answers.

    3/ ANGELS- Everyday I have an Angel. One day on my way to an Interview with South Seas, I had 2 angels that day. People who helped me out, when they didn't have to.

    LESSON: I went to Otahuhu on Market Day. The streets were crowded with shoppers everywhere. I stood in a food court and waited for my mom. As I stood there looking to the road, I witnessed 2 birds fighting over a piece of chip (hot chip)...One bird picked it up from the road and as he was gonna take off, he dropped it. Then another bird swooped in quickly to snatch it but he too dropped it. They both began pecking away and fighting over this one chip....till a car comes at full speed and they both fly out of the way, so close I see a feather gently fall to the ground from one of these birds.....As I looked down to the road where the birds were fighting, The car tyre smashed this 1 chip flat into mash potatoe and you know what? Both birds flew back and another bird and they all took a piece of that one chip.....I stood there smiling and looked amongst the crowd, hopefully to meet eyes with someone else who had seen this happen in front of me. But No one was looking or even knew why I was smiling:) Everyone was too pre-occupied. At the time I thought the Heavens had put on a special show for me, for being attentive hahahahahaha

    So, what did I learn?

    I learned to see Gods hand in everyday experiences. I learned that even though bad things may happen such as the Car racing and nearly killing one bird or smashing the chip, it could be for a good reason. I also learned that sharing is caring LOL!!! I also learned a chip was not worth losing my life LOL!!! I learned that being pre-occupied with shopping could cause you to miss the lessons AND that if you don't LOOK OUT for it, you'll miss it. I also thought it would make a good cartoon, yanno the ones that play before the movie begins:D :L

    ANSWERS: I went through 2weeks of asking Heavenly Father how to lift my team out of the $48,000 bracket. I didn't want to be making that money for the rest of my life. I had goals and dreams that would require more money than that. I wasn't sure if I should invest or be self employed or what so i took it to prayer and asked Heavenly Father. I always go to the movies by myself, I don't really care if I'm a loner:L :L :L :L just as long as I go. But for some reason I made plans with a friend to see TRANSFORMERS 2...I didn't know why but I felt strong about going with someone. That day of going to the movie I had lost my job. Being depressed about it, I wanted to go straight home but my mate was already waiting for me. After watching the movie...I asked myself "why would God drag me to a movie after losing my job?" and BAM I knew the answer right there. Go Back to school & chase my dream!

    ANGELS: The morning of my Interview with South Seas, I had never caught a bus to North Shore in my life. I was nervous, wondering if I had the right information on me given by the public transport website and call center. Anyway, I kept bugging this one bus driver about directions and all, right? and he gave me this look that reminded me of the racism I had to deal with in Texas. I kinda got down and thought DAM I'm gonna be dealing with Crackers for the rest of my life:L :L :L :L . Once I got off my stop, I got lost and this one palagi man came and

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  • Goals & Dreams...Be a Slave or Take Charge

    2 months ago I watched my 13yr old son go to school come home take his uniform off play outside play with his cousins have dinner shower and sleep. Day in day out. No homework, no physical fitness, no scripture reading, no nothing. I asked him if there were any goals he had or dreams or anything other than playing with his friends, that he wanted to do. He said no. Not wanting to force him (like i usually do lol) into doing his homework, taking up a sport or music lessons, I decided that if he wanted to be a bum I was going to treat him like one.

    For a whole month when he came home from school I made him clean the whole house, inside and out. I made him watch the kids while I read my scriptures. I made him do the washing while we watched tv. and I would purposely laugh out loud as we watched 'MY WIFE AND KIDS' cos thats our favorite show. Every time he got mad and said why do i have to do this? This is what I told him. "You do not have goals or dreams, that makes you a slave and this is what slaves do. Your choice, be a slave or take charge of your life". Everyday he got mad at me for doing chores I repeated those words and held my head up high.

    Then....a miracle happened. He suddenly wanted to do homework and be tested on his maths. I was suprised and quite proud. I knew it would eventually work, just not this fast. I explained to him, because he had homework to do, I would do half his chores. He was happy about that. I was delighted in the progress he was making in school without the homework. This made me believe he was more than capable of doing good academically.

    Just a week later, I am here in the house thinking about him, having done all the chores myself and leaving him nothing to do because he has made it a goal to fight in Golden Gloves March 2010. The time he wasted on playing is now filled with homework and Boxing training.

    I knew it would work. He cant possibly be sweating and running (which he hates) just to get away from the dishes:L :L :L :L :L He told me he wanted to buy me a house one day. I asked him fully furnished? He replied "Dont be a slave mum, have some goals and dreams" the smart ash:D

    I urge you to examine your life. Determine where you are and what you need to do to be the kind of person you want to be. Create inspiring, noble, and righteous goals that fire your imagination and create excitement in your heart. And then keep your eye on them. Work consistently towards achieving them.

    “If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams,” wrote Henry David Thoreau, “and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours.”1

    In other words, never take your eye off the ball.


    Joseph B. Wirthlin, “Life’s Lessons Learned,” Liahona, May 2007, 45–47

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19 January
Lucky Color:Ivory
Personality Strengths:Sensuality, Style
Personality Weakness(es):Arrogance
Successful Career Path:Fashion
Sense of Humor Style:Witty
Adjectives to Describe You:powerful, daring
Description:
Bright and cheerful - you are always smiling and add a smile to the face of all those that know you. Chirpy and talkative for the most part, you are outgoing, social and extroverted. A largely happy person on both the outside and the inside - may you always remain the same!

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Relationship Prefrence
Would you rather have a fun fling or a lasting relationship? :
LastN
What was your longest relationship? :
10Yrz
What is your favorite personality trait? :
Sense of Humour
What is the most romantic thing a significant other could do? :
Temple Temple
When you are dating someone, what is the most important thing to you? :
Being Myself or it would be boring..:)
Do you like pet names (ex: baby, sweetheart...)? :
I like using pet names such as DOG, HORSE....Tiiiiiger...lol
What is your ideal night out with a significant other? :
I shall see when i have one...lol
What is your ideal night in with a significant other? :
Anything to do with an x-box lol
Would you be able to tell someone you love them, even if you didn't feel it? :
Money Talks...LOL
Do you like relationships that invovle serious commitments? :
If you are refering to my personal trainer?...NO! lol
If you ever got engaged, how would you want it to happen? :
It better be romantic or I'l say NO! lol
If you were engaged, would you want a wedding as soon as possible? :
If it's a temple 1...YES he he he
Do you like to talk about the future when in a serious relationship? :
Hmmm...serious question...PASS...lol
Do you prefer a sensitive open relationship or a strong silent type? :
Him to be sensitive & open his wallet & stong and silent while I SHOP!...lol
When in a relationship do you have to have contact with your partner on a daily basis? :
Nope! only on PAY DAY...lol
Do you like public displays of affection? :
Yes espcially when im MAD...LOL!!!
Is there anything you won't tolerate while in a relationship? :
Yes if u change da channel wen im watchn sports! Dnt expect 2LIVE..lol
What is one thing that you value most in a relationship? :
Key Ring. Key to the car & house ring on my finger. He can hav da KIDS...lol
Would you ever be able to handle a long-distance situation? :
If he was in da ARMY...or being detained...yes lol
Do you believe in moving in together before engagement or marriage? :
nly if it requires living in a mansion 20 rooms apart...lol
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Name :   Loviani
Nick Name :   Lovee, SoulSurfah
Birthdate :   19 Jan
Birthplace:   Laie Hawaii usa
Current Location:   Brisbane Queensland Australia
Eye Color:   brown
Hair Color:   black
Height:   5'3
Weight:   pass
Piercings:   pass
Tatoos:   ankle
Boyfriend/Girlfriend:   Hell nooo
Vehicle:   Ford (yucky) love Holdens
Overused Phrase:   Hell noooo
FAVORITES
Food:   BBQ's or Subway
Pub/Disc/Restaurant:   Island Buffets
Number:   11
Color:   Red
Drink:   RootBeer!!!!
Body Part on Opposite sex:   Face
TV Show:   American Idol, my wife & Kids,cosby show
Movie:   Meet the Browns..too many to mention
This or That
Pepsi or Coke:   Coke of course
McDonalds or BurgerKing:   BK for sure
Chocolate or Vanilla   Chocolate! daaaang
Hot Chocolate or Coffee:   Hot Chocolate...for reo
Kiss or Hug:   Huggs galore
Dog or Cat:   Dogs...cats dont like me lol
Rap or Punk:   Rap...sheesh...lol
Summer or Winter:   Hmmm..I like both, just NOT at the same time
Scary Movies or Funny Movies:   Funny MOvies, scary ones r funny to me.LOL
Love or Money:   Ummm...cant I have BOTH? of course I can
YOUR...
Bedtime:   Late as
First Thought Waking Up:   What is the Lord going to teach me today?
Ambition:   Script writer song writer...writer!
Best Friends:   Too many to mention, you know who u r
Longest relationship:   13yrs
HAVE YOU...
Cheated Your Partner:   in a game of last card torcher...YES!
Ever been beaten up:   when I got caught cheating in last card YES!
Ever beaten someone up:   tried to but I got beaten up AGAIN
Ever Shoplifted:   with Leigh Harford? NEVER!
Ever Skinny Dipped:   how aboutover weight dipped? YES!
Ever Kissed Opposite sex:   3 guys in all my 33years, pretty good huh
Been Dumped Lately:   not lately, been dumped ONCE in my life lol
IN A GUY/GAL
Favorite Eye Color:   more the soul you can see in those eyes
Favorite Hair Color:   dont matter
Short or Long:   just as long as its clean
Height:   taller than me
Looks or Personality:   himself and noone else
Hot or Cute   dont matter
Muscular or Really Skinny:   whatever
RANDOMS
What country do you want to Visit:   Hawaii
How do you want to Die:   old age
Been to the Mall Lately:   nah
Get along with your Parents:   yup
Health Freak:   should be
Do you think your Attractive:   hell yeah!
Believe in Yourself:   I do!
Want to go to College:   Maybe
Do you Smoke:   Not anymore
Do you Drink:   of course I do...sheesh...water
Shower Daily:   3 times a day
Been in Love:   many times by myself LOL
Do you Sing:   I TRY
Want to get Married:   anytime after 3ys from now
Do you want Children:   Oh who do these kids belong to? LOL
Age you wanna lose your Virginity:   anytime after Im 37yrs old LOL
Hate anyone:   I try to avoid it as best I can
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  • Sionefato
    luv Sionefato

    aaawwwwwwwwwww LOVI!!!!!! thanks for the t-shirts (or did you forget them) lol
    i just saw them today! lol well actually my mum came over and i caught her holding something and i said ummmm what are you doing and whats that? ...and she says your lucky aye i was gonna steal them LMAO:L :L :L :L but im just gonna take one of them :L :L :L :L :L she such a kuluku!
    Thanks sis! Love you loads and loads glad that you were able to come over for our sealing! it really meant alot!
    LOVE US

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  • BAby Tyson
    luv BAby Tyson

    LOVE YOU MUM

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  • -L.
    -L.

    Sorry i thought you were here:L are you there for a holiday?

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  • TiP C
    luv TiP C

    oh herez mahh luff :)

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  • -L.
    -L.

    Cuz whose Nigel? and what did you say?:L

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  • Pixie'Lott.
    Pixie'Lott.

    no need, you're already good at it ;) haha, ilove readng thm. im good by th way :) happy that its holidays &that ive fnshd al my exams so yaaay! .. film schl? wow, thats cool :D excitinggg! .. um, question? iwanr start getng into some kindv sport &since ur al 'boxing queen' (lol) iwus wondrng f you hav any ideas or smthng like that fr me startng boxing? (ihope that made sense. lol)

    loveyoutoo! xxxxx.

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  • -L.
    luv -L.

    Hey beautiful!
    when do you start? so happy for you:) you still havnt told me about your dream:D catchup soon k just came by to share the love! Lovin' the profile pic & skin:)

    happiness health & wealth
    xx

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  • Pixie'Lott.
    Pixie'Lott.


    omg. iread most of your blogs &look at th tme :O .. ilaughd so bad at your blog abou humour? iactualli sdartd cryng hahaha grampa turn th tv off, th convo abou th hous burning down, etc. iwus laughng so loud &for ages &im th only one awake which is awkward :L love thm.

    hope al is wel wth you &your our family :D


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  • Malia-Telesia Müller
    Malia-Telesia Müller

    Hey thurr!!!

    Awww mah bad, I thought I sent yo' a comment already! Neways...hows things! Do you live in NZ? or here in the States? Butchea...saw you ask'd fo' Luisa Kioa on one o' my pics! You'll find her on my top friends, her name is Isalei!

    Butchea...hope all is well, N lol @ me slippin' from showin' on ur homepage, dang, I didn't kno' I was always on ur homepage! lol...

    Well hope errythin' is good yo' ways N take care...

    Mujj ofa, dayummm, sorry, I swear I thought I had a heart left, but next time! lol...

    Toodlz!
    TM
    xxx xoxo

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  • Saini Schwenke
    Saini Schwenke

    How are you today?

    1 Woche her
  • luv Mareko Mareko

    It's Amy Here... I read your sparring session with Patrick Stehlin on FB last night... You have to admit he is funny, Lovi... Dont fall for him its effecting your game... Sorry to be blunt... We love you:D xOxOxO

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  • Salesi'S Angels
    luv Salesi'S Angels

    oh my gosh, hello babe, how are you all and how was the transition? oh my gosh, we've just been so busy with skool, church and the girls poly group... their big day is on the 4th of Dec.... i was going to come back just before hubby died and visit you... but i lost my tickets and all, i just couldn't get credit... but other than that, we're all good... when you coming back these ways babe? i hope all is good and stay in touch ok.. take care and kiss the little ones for us.

    love you long

    sina and salesi's angels

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  • Maria N Spens
    Maria N Spens

    hehehe, hey, oh thats good, yea, I heard les was getting selaed right? so happy for them! I wanna try pop in with spens hehehe....keep in touch yea, I'd love to see ya guys again!

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  • Maria N Spens
    luv Maria N Spens

    hello my friend, see ya light on, hows things? just popped in to say I remembered you when I went to the temple last night....always do...hope all is weel sis.....are you coming over?

    liah

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  • luv Mareko Mareko

    Good job I read your facebook!!!
    From my perspective Patrick Stehlin won hands down!!!

    Who is this guy?

    Dont EVEN try to deny it:L
    I can tell by the way you two fight on your FB page, you LOVE him haw haw haw

    One for the Boyzzz Woot! Woot!

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  • Lavinia Asiata
    luv Lavinia Asiata

    Hahaha... Aunty Hala aye?? Good to know you're close to family - the closest I am to family out my ways are the 'dingo's and not even they stay close to me... Being hard out tongan and all... They're scared I might eat them - bwahhahaha!!! :D :D :D :D
    Look whos tawkin u haven't aged a bit... Dang gal, wots the secret?? Sharing is caring u no... Great to hear from you and keep in touch cuz...

    O4a2 Niah Taukafa

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  • Deanna-Siota Masani
    Deanna-Siota Masani

    WORD UP SISTER.. LOVI SOUL SURFING



    XX fans of LOVE or what?

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  • Deanna-Siota Masani
    Deanna-Siota Masani

    hey.. im feeling you on this song girl... WHAT IS UP?? LOL.. this is as deep as the TITANIC JAM.. reaching out..

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  • Deanna-Siota Masani
    Deanna-Siota Masani

    AUOLA.. haha fireplace made it on line.. and who's your secretary??????ME? am i the secretary? damn.. the secretary lives in brisbane.. hey soul when you talk to helen ask her why she's been dodging her phone bill? LMAO!.. she knows we got LOTS to talk about but she wont rack it up on her phone bill.. and hell no i aint doing it on mine!! lol. so you tell her BE POETIC and start writing me letters only 1.20 stamp hahaha go girl add some wood to the fire.. hahaha MALO AUCKLAND, we love you

    xx

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  • Deanna-Siota Masani
    Deanna-Siota Masani

    Hey there chik!! Hw are you?? Its me helen, i no its been a while and yep im here in nz, lol im sure dee has filled you in, lol! have to catch up sum time. So jst talk to my secretary, lmao!!! she'll gve u my contact details and we'll hook up hve sum koko and sum masi's 2 go, lol take care and hpe to see u soon

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