ere are people who can walk away from you. And hear me when I tell you this!
When people can walk away from you: let them walk.
I don't want you to try to talk another person into staying with you, loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to see you, staying attached to you. I mean hang up the phone. When people can walk away from you let them walk. Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left. People leave you because they are not joined to you. And if they are not joined to you, you can't make them stay. Let them go.
And it doesn't mean that they are a bad person, it just means that their part in the story is over. And you've got to know when people's part in your story is over so that you don't keep trying to raise the dead. You've got to know when it's dead. You've got to know when it's over.
Let me tell you something. I've got the gift of good-bye. It's the tenth spiritual gift, I believe in good-bye. It's not that I'm hateful, it's that I'm faithful, and I know whatever Fate means for me to have, It’ll get to me. And if it takes too much sweat I don't need it. Stop begging people to stay.
Let them go!!
If you are holding on to something that doesn't belong to you and was never intended for your life, then you need to ..LET IT GO!!!
If you are holding on to past hurts and pains ..
LET IT GO!!!
If someone can't treat you right, love you back, and see your worth...
LET IT GO!!!
If someone has angered you ..
LET IT GO!!!
If you are holding on to some thoughts of evil and revenge ..
LET IT GO!!!
If you are involved in a wrong relationship or addiction .
LET IT GO!!!
If you are holding on to a job that no longer meets your needs or talents ..
LET IT GO!!!
If you have a bad attitude...
LET IT GO!!!
If you keep judging others to make yourself feel better...
LET IT GO!!!
If you're stuck in the past and God is trying to take you to a new level in Him...
LET IT GO!!!
If you are struggling with the healing of a broken relationship....
LET IT GO!!!
If you keep trying to help someone who won't even try to help themselves..
LET IT GO!!!
If you're feeling depressed and stressed ...
LET IT GO!!!
If there is a particular situation that you are so used to handling yourself and God is saying "take your hands off of it," then you need to...
LET IT GO!!!
Let the past be the past. Forget the former things.

Is that I love my friends.

They're the people in my life who mean the most to me, I'm the most envious of, and ultimately, the people who bring out the best, and worst in me.

After a lengthy conversation with one the people I consider most influentual, and important to me. I sit here feeling motivated, and lucky. Content, and Valued. Proud, and Loved.

It takes the smallest words of encouragement to bring out these feelings, and after being showered with encouragement and love, I truely could not feel luckier to have this special person in my life. She is there for me when I need her, and knows I will always return the favour. We don't judge, and we accept each other for who we truely, truely are.

Many people in my life no doubt will find it hard to ever see the side of me that the select few people I let in do... in words that are not my own, I am fake when it is required, but real when it comes to profund issues. So real I couldn't be fake if I tried.

I am passionate, driven, and often make the worst of decisions. I am not perfect, and never will be. But this is what makes us different, it keeps us from becoming robot like, as if it was possible, I have no doubt that almost all would want perfection.

I have regrets. But what human doesn't? There is however... one regret I will never have. That, is regretting letting the people I've let get to know the real me over the years, as you have personally shaped, and formed the person I am today.

To all those I've loved, To all those I've hurt, To all those who've loved me, and to all those who've hurt me,

Thankyou. For everything, good terms or bad, I walk, because of you.

Booze hag is an New Zealand invented word, but a global concept.

A Booze hag is one who engages in excessive behavior while partying, and generally makes a disgrace of themselves - in a good way.

Booze hag bagging doesn't involve just alcohol. It is a way of life. On a night out, a Booze hag should participate in at least 5 of the following:

- Pre-drinks before going out is not an idea, it is a necessity.
- Drinking Smirnoff blacks because they have 1.9 standard drinks, or Coopers Sparkling, cause it is 5.9% alcohol.
- Taking at least 60 photos of yourself.
- Sustaining an unidentified party injury.
- Drinking at least a bottle of wine or cheap champagne BEFORE leaving the house.
- Crying/stacking it/booting/all three.
- Purposely not eating before you hit the bars, cause it'll slow down the drinking process. This is also affectionately referred to as "eating is cheating".
- Drinking more than 10 jagerbombs.
- Putting your bags on the floor and dancing around them so you have more movement.
- Taking a hip flask of vodka in your jacket.
- Being that person on their way home as people are jogging, and going to work/school.
- Doing the walk of shame, either home or out of the club, with shoes in hand.
- Eating in at least three of the major fast food outlets in the course of one evening.
- Starting up deep conversations with randoms while waiting in the toilet queue.
- Dancing on any available table, not discriminating against pool tables of course.
- Requesting so many songs that the music is like your own play list, and the DJ hates you.
- Screaming I LOVE THIS SONG for every song.
- Having the bouncers, bar staff and DJ all know you at your local.
- Inventing new dance moves, such as the moose, the elephant.
- Clearing the dance floor and getting strange looks from everyone that’s not you.
- Writing things on yourself and everyone around you.
- Telling random people that they're hot. And more importantly, that you are.
- Taking photos of yourself and your friends on the toilet.
- Sucking face with a random on the dance floor. And then another. And another. And, well, you get the picture...
- Starting drinking at 3pm.
- Continuing till the next afternoon.
- Staying somewhere till you get kicked out, then catching a cab to somewhere else that’s 5mins down the road.
- Walking out of a club and the sun is up, the birds are chirping, and noticing that the person you've been suck facing is not as attractive as you thought.
- Choosing a corner to dance in so you can dance like mo fo’s in your own privacy.
- Making emotional phone calls to friends you haven't spoken to in a while. Or worse, family.
- Getting into serious conversations with cab drivers that end with you mocking and insulting them.