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my brother need your guys help to stop cutting so plz help him or he's going be hospitalized for ever and i dont want that for him so plz help im scared for him ='[

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hi im 40, and i have cut since i was 13, and tried suicide , several times . im a borderline personality, i hate it and myself, for what i do, but theres just no stoppin sometimes. i feel absolutli empti inside and wnt to stop, its ruinin my famili, myself and evrithing i do ...

My addiction i have never done it badly but iv'e done it often unfortunatly now it's coming back.
i don't want it to i want to hold my head up high and smile in the sun not sit their looking down on my wrist with a worried look.
This is one helpful site.
XOX

self harm is strange addiction, i thought it would my life better, it only made things worse is that just me, or does anybody else feel that way?

i self harm

im not proud of it

but it is the only pain relief i can find that works

started cutting round 4years ago tryin to stop but im findin it really hard just as i tink i have a handle on it i fall back again

Have you got a cure for very sore eyes when a person is working on a LCD computer desktop from 9am to 1pm and after a while it will be 9am to 5pm and my eyes are really killing me.any ideas?

Hey! I started Cutting when I was in the 8th grade which was in 2000 and the last time I cut was about 4 yrs ago. I use to cut cause of my dads drinking and just school stuff. There's somedays when I'm feeling down I think about cutting but I know if I do it would get me back in trouble with si. I was wondering Do You Actually Ever Cured of Self Injury.. I'm not sure what do yall think.

i used to self harm when i was a teenager due to my dad being an alchoholic . he used to hit me ,my mam and mybrother.

now im 38 i amost self harmed last nite ( my ex left me in debts im trying to manage but its hard when yr on yr own to try to deal with it)

i always there in the back of my mind to self harm , how does anyone deal with it in their older yrs ??

Firstly, we need to accept that we don't know everything that's going on in his life or in their relationship. Hopefully he'll want to talk to a friend about what's stressing him out. Maybe that'll be you? People who self-harm need help and support to rely on new ways of coping, but it can be a long journey so patience and understanding is needed. We have a page and a fact sheet for guys on our main website.

ok
so heres a question im not 2sure if u can reply it
but ahhh
i know of some 1 who does harm himself
but he only does it when him & his partner have a disagreement or somethink.
or even if she dont believe him he cuts himself
its sad i dont know what 2do

what can be done?

woohoo finally found the bebo link

Are many of you guys starting Uni? Is it back to school / college for many of you?

Love to first signs,
I stopped self-harming for a bit,
But have started again.
I have a counsiller and friends I could talk to, but I find it really hard to find the words.
I will though.
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my friend used to self-harm, but she's all good now.
it's such a scary thing seeing someone you love hurt themselves like that.

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And It Will Continue To Do So
Mucho Love
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