Ben Dale <pastorbendale>


I"m a church youth leader in Maidenhead, married to the beautiful Cat! I love my job, my wife and my God! I"m big into sport, especially football and cricket.


Take a look at www.the-fix.org.uk
if you wanna find out a bit more about what I do with the youth work!

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Ben Dale says:

"I'm well proud of Cat and Matthew! He's def gonna be the next Stevey G!" (40 weeks ago) me too! | Reply

Music
Delirious? Oasis, Artic Monkeys, Kasabian, Chili Peppers, Coldplay, Razorlight, Slim Shady- the good stuff, Guillemots, Fall Out Boy, Snow Patrol, Beastie Boys, Kanye West- the good stuff, DC Talk, Jars of Clay...
Films
Forrest Gump, Man on Fire, Dumb and Dumber (Classic!), Braveheart, Good Will Hunting, Casino, Godfather Trilogy, Band of Brothers, Don"t be a meanace to south central while drinking your juice in the hood (yes it is a genuine film title! check it out on IMDB) Saving Private Ryan, Lord of the Rings trilogy, The Departed, Pan's Labyrinth (awesome) and of course Napolean Dynamite!
Sports
Liverpool FC! Cricket, Rugby...
Scared Of
Needles!
Happiest When
Chilling with mates in the pub with a cold beer around the pool table or Quiz Machine with football on in the background.
Remeber...
"You did not receive a spirit that makes you a slave again to fear, but you received the Spirit of sonship. And by him we cry "Abba, Father" . The Spirit himself testifies with our spirit that we are God"s children. Now if we are children then we are heirs- heirs of God and co-heirs with Christ, if indeed we share in his sufferings in order that we may also share in his glory" Amen! Romans 8:15-17

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  • summer ball 07

    Hi All,

    Thanks to everyone who turned up.... for some photos and reports check out

    http://www.real-life.org.uk/youthpho...

    or follow links from

    www.the-fix.org.uk
    www.s-cape.org.uk

    Great!

    Ben

    1 Comment 733 days

  • Anyone got an easy answer?

    Hi all,

    I've been asked to write an article looking at ethical dilemmas and how we make our decisions in life. I got to reading this book which said there are 3 basic ways of solving a dilemma:

    1. Chose the way which results in the greatest good for the greatest number
    2. Chose the 'virtuous' way- the way that 'feels' right to you
    3. Follow a set of rules that tells you what to do i.e. the law, the Bible, a contract etc.

    They all have their merits.... but what one would you chose? Why?

    Let's give an example. You got a friend who is taking drugs. Do you go to the police, teachers, their parens. or do you let them get on with it? Are they harming anyone else? Could it escalate? What is your responsibility as a friend?

    Do any of the models set out above help you in your decision, or are they all flawed?

    Well, I'm not sure there are easy answers- but maybe you think I'm being stupid and missing something obvious- let me know!

    Ben

    5 Comments 843 days

  • Relevent or Real?

    Thanks for all those who read and posted on by last blog.

    Thought I'd follow it up with some thinking from another book I was reading the other day. It basically said that young people nowadays don't care if something is relevent to their lifes, as long as it is real and authentic. It got me thinking as to whether or not that was true?

    Are you more likely to listen to someone who can speak with relevance i.e. knows where you;re coming from, knows about the stuff you're going through or someone who has reality to them, an authenticity i.e. they're in a completely different place to you socially and culturally but what they say comes out of the reality of their life experience.

    mmmm...... I'd guess we'd hope for both, but if you had the choice what would it have to be: Relevant or Real?

    Maybe this is a little abstract, but if this is my 'deep thinking' part of my page so if you're up for deep thinking then I'd love to hear what you think,

    Cheers,

    Ben

    7 Comments 855 days

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  • Andy Pandy
    Andy Pandy

    that big sleep was awesome!

    12 weeks ago
  • Tom
    Tom

    err not sure yet get back to u later on that

    17 weeks ago
  • Tom
    Tom

    sfe ben err u no the fix xmas party how much was like all the lightin and that coz it my bday soon havin big party

    19 weeks ago
  • Owen
    Owen

    Hey, Um I cant make it tonight but il will be next week and also could i get a letter for this sleepover thing

    Owen

    20 weeks ago
  • Zac
    Zac

    Did you get the e-mail from my mum?
    :D :D

    20 weeks ago
  • Zac
    Zac

    Hi Ben,
    How are you?
    My mum says i can come to the
    24 hr famine but i will get
    her to send you an e-mail.
    :) :) :D :D :) :)
    Zac

    20 weeks ago
  • Callum
    luv Callum

    hey how are you
    WELL DONE TODAY :)
    AWESOME GAME
    i want play a rematch can we lol
    and i will be captain haha
    but anywayz
    WELL DONE :)
    IT WAS FUN THATS THE MAIN THING
    and for winning
    have the luv dude

    24 weeks ago
  • Callum
    luv Callum

    ok man im picking the forms up today if u got some spares ?
    and i willl play
    im ok n ow mate thank you :)
    ur awesome :)

    25 weeks ago
  • Theo
    Theo

    yeh am playing on weekend
    i give 2 u on fri

    25 weeks ago
  • Callum
    Callum

    safe ben
    i wna play sat cause im in the team
    but my mum aint filed in a form
    cause im the striker cause i was ill money get bk to me thank you :)

    25 weeks ago
  • Owen
    Owen

    Yh il prob download from webby or if not i give u my dad email

    Owen;)

    25 weeks ago
  • Owen
    Owen

    Um i wud play in footy but i havent got a letter, so maybe il get won on fri? Owen

    25 weeks ago
  • Owen
    Owen

    Yeh i had a good christmas wbu i got money :D

    25 weeks ago
  • Owen
    Owen

    Heyy Ben Howa U?

    Wb Owen

    28 weeks ago
  • Tom
    Tom

    kk kl got a torlemnt comin up

    28 weeks ago
  • Zac
    Zac

    Yeh ok i will help Joe
    but what time is it??
    :D :D

    28 weeks ago
  • Zac
    Zac

    Hey Ben,
    Thanks for running and hosting the
    christmas party
    it was brill
    Many thanks,

    Zac :D :D :D :D

    28 weeks ago
  • Faye Kaufman
    Faye Kaufman

    Hello =]
    weekend away was amazing!

    btw, there was a girls only night, and i saw one of the pictures was on the website, but i cant get to the rest. Do u know where i could find them as they were supposed to be sent to us?

    x

    36 weeks ago