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LifeSIGNS (Self-Injury Guidance & Network Support) is an online, user-lead voluntary organisation, founded in 2002 to raise awareness about self-injury and provide information and support to people of all ages affected by self-injury.

We recognise self-injury is a way of coping with distressing experiences and difficult emotions, and we encourage people to reflect on the issues behind their self-injury, and explore alternative coping mechanisms.

LifeSIGNS is managed and lead by people with personal experience of self-injury, and we are non-judgemental, non-directional, and respectful of our members' and visitors' life experiences and perceptions.

The LifeSIGNS website is the centre of our vibrant community, and provides access to all our services, including our newsletter, message board and training.

We are very proud to be part of Bebo's <BeWell> project.

LifeSIGNS is also on Facebook and MySpace:
http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?...
http://www.myspace.com/MyLifeSIGNS

LifeSIGNS says:
"Along with our self-injury awareness Wristbands and Keyrings, we now have cool badges, so nice, and so cheap!" (6 weeks ago) me too!
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www.lifesigns.org.uk

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http://www.bebo.com/LifeSIGNS

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January 2008

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Tracy Glover
Thank-you Immortal Rose.I'll send love as i've always got some to give x Hugs to everyone.
4 days ago
Immortal-Rose
This Is An Absolutly Amazee Band,
Hope Your Ok Tracy&+That Everything Looks Up Soon.


Run Out Of Love )=
1 week ago
Tracy Glover
Found out a couple of hours ago that a friend was found dead,don't know is it's foul play.I know i'm going to cut so please sorry i have to.I haven't been doing it as much but tonight i may.
1 week ago
Tracy Glover
Sending my love and hugs once again.You are not alone and we are not bad people.Someone somewhere cares,I do and lots of others on this site cos we are either there or have been x Sharing my luv
1 week ago
Missuss Kirsty-Marie Hamlin
hey i used to self-harm for almost two years it woz my way ov dealin with all the shit life seemed to bring i felt better with myself after and i forgot everything but after abwt hlf a year it just became a habbit i cudnt not do it if yuu understand anyway i guess wot im tryin to say is if yu r self-harmin plz do all yuu can to stop im here if yuu need to tlk its just i no how horrible it can b dnt let it become part ov ur daily routine i cnt stand to look at myself most dayz becoz ov the scars i av been left wiv and no matter wot over people say self-harming is in no way a form ov attention seekin it is lyk a mental illness and givin people shit abwt it will not make it any better!!!!

lovee yuu all xXX<33
2 weeks ago
Rob A
i used to self harm, but i then saw a counsellor- it really helped.Dont be pt off by seeing one- it turned my life around
3 weeks ago
James
I haven't self-harmed, but I've been thinking about it since I was 12 (I'm 14 now). My friends have been really helpful on the matter but I still sometimes feel so much like doing it. Some help on how to resist it would be helpful.

Thanks.
3 weeks ago
Scott James Mcarthur Slatford
hey thanks for adding me
3 weeks ago
Lucyy
Moree Love
Already Said It But I'munaa Say It Again.
Amazing Band, Helps Tonnes Of People
xox
3 weeks ago
LifeSIGNS
Hi Megz,

it's great that you're doing some research, and I hope you can support your friend and be a good listener.

We've got some fantastic guidance for Friends like you, please check the http://www.lifesigns.org.uk/others/ section, and then download our Factsheet for Friends from: http://www.lifesigns.org.uk/publicat...

I hope your friend can visit our site too?
4 weeks ago
Lucyy
Lovee
xox
4 weeks ago
Tracy Glover
Hey everyone,how are you all?Sending my love and hugs to everyone.
4 weeks ago
Rockie
wow theres so many people here bare people self harm i cnt believe it
4 weeks ago
Megz
hi, recently i found out my friend is cutting herself, at first she denined it and sed it was cat but i cud tell it wasnt, then she became a bit more open wiv me, ive always kown that shes got a rly bad home life with split parent and 9 younger brother and sisters (altho she only lives with 4 of them) also they dnt have much money and she has problems at skl too with ppl picking on, ive told her im here for her and that she can always cum to me instead of resorting to such extreme measures! it worrys me that she couldnt cum 2 me in first place but im even worryed that she will continue and maybe even get worse! i dnt no wot else i can do to help her? any advice wud be really helpful! thanks, x
4 weeks ago
Immortal-Rose
Lovee

<3
4 weeks ago
Smurfette pixie kuddles
ive been self harmer since ages 13
ive stopped at them minutre dew to the fact im getten married soon
im looken for pals i can share my experinces with
kels xx
4 weeks ago
Immortal-Rose
Please,
Don't Hate Your Self,
Yeh,
Telling Someone Took Me 2 Years,
Then, They Call Me A Attention Seeker
&+
Nutcase.
But, I Realised Now.
What I Was Doing Didn't Change A Thing,
Just Gave Me A Moment Of Relief
And
A Life Time Of Regret.
I Have A Really Lubly Friend Thats Helping Me Stop.
Thank-You.

Never Give Up Hope,
You Never Know,
Some Thing Unexpected May Come Round The Corner.

Always Believe,
Hah!
I Sound Like A Plonker But Seriously.


<3<3<3

Have No Love Left,
But Will Leave Some Asap.

Ox.
4 weeks ago
Tracy Glover
Hey Yan,sorry your not feeling so great,i know it's hard.Your friends are probably just worried and concerned about you and don't understand.Why don't you let them see this page and it might help them understand a bit better.It's good that your on this site,it shows your trying.Sending a hug and a love your way,cos you deserve it dude.
5 weeks ago
Tracy Glover
Lyl, sometimes it doesn't go quite as well as we hope when we tell people.Sometimes when they think on things things can change.There will be others who you tell that will accept and understand the best they can.Think though that you've done something brave and courageous by telling someone even if it didn't go the way you had hoped.WELL DONE,be proud of yourself.Sending hugs and a love cos you deserve it.
5 weeks ago
Lucyy
This page is amazing.

Used to sh but thankfully stopped now. Took over a lot in my life.

Lovee
xoxoxox
5 weeks ago
 

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Happy 6th Birthday LifeSIGNS!
Thursday, May 08, 2008


As you know, this month LifeSIGNS celebrates its 6th Birthday; how much do you know about our little organisation?


I remember LifeSIGNS back in the early days when I was a member of the first Message Board. I can't remember my username back then, but I do remember the name Wedge! Of course I never knew at the time that one day I would be working alongside the man himself, but even from the beginning I knew that LifeSIGNS was something special, and it's certainly had a huge impact on my life.


I'd spent so many years struggling with my own self-injury, but I was in a silent and lonely world where I didn't even know the words self-injury existed. It wasn't until I discovered LifeSIGNS that I realised I wasn't alone, I wasn't the only person hurting themselves, and there was help and support out there. Because of LifeSIGNS I felt empowered to face up to my own self-injury, 'come out' to my loved ones and seek support. So you see, I am living proof that not only has LifeSIGNS been in existence for 6 years now, but it has been helping people all that time too. Literally tens of thousands of people.


I've not been a constant at LifeSIGNS for all these six years. I've left and re-joined three or four times over the years. But I always felt myself drawn back, whether it was for some extra support, some ideas for distraction techniques or simply because it was somewhere I always felt I belonged and would be welcomed. The one reassuring factor each time I returned was the presence of Wedge. LifeSIGNS has changed so much over the years, but Wedge has always been here, and that in itself makes it all the more special.


The last time I rejoined two years ago, it was for a specific purpose, and that was to finally give something back to Wedge and his organisation that had done so much for me. It took me a while to persuade him that I wanted to help, but I was so proud when I first accompanied Wedge to a conference last year as a Director of LifeSIGNS and heard him speak, and I'm both proud and honoured to be here now working alongside him for LifeSIGNS as we celebrate our Sixth Birthday.


Thank you LifeSIGNS and, more importantly, thank you Wedge – for without you the LifeSIGNS we all know and love today would not exist.


Please do join us for our 6th Birthday Facebook Event – you don't have to go anywhere or do anything – it's just a show of support.


Happy 6th Birthday and I hope I'm here to celebrate the next six too!

Jules
0 Comments 1 day ago
LifeSIGNS will be six years old in May!

Wedge founded our voluntary organisation in 2002, and although he has worked with several different members of our Management Committee over the years, Wedge has been the one continuum throughout. I’m thrilled to be here for our latest and greatest birthday!


So many people have great ideas and early enthusiasm, but it takes something special to maintain the work and dedication needed to grow and develop an organisation over such a long time. Many organisations fail within the first year, and many more web based organisations never update their pages or create anything new because they lack the creative skills and drives necessary to say anything of importance.


Wedge has those skills in abundance, and together with some fantastic people, has created the LifeSIGNS we all know and love today.


You can read more about the history of LifeSIGNS online.


Currently, Wedge and I run LifeSIGNS, with guidance and help from our dear Mods and supporters. We also look forward to increasing our Management Committee members later in the year in order that LifeSIGNS can continue to grow and provide new and fresh ideas and services.


LifeSIGNS is more vibrant and busier than ever, just look at the news on our home page! Our website it getting so many hits that Wedge has had to increase the size of his server in order to cope with all the traffic!


We are on Facebook, MySpace and Bebo, with new members joining us every single day. We are proud to be a part of Bebo’s BeWell campaign, where we feature alongside such organisations as the Samaritans and Childline.


We would like to thank everyone who supports us or who is a part of our thriving community. Many thanks to all our Newsletter Members, Message Board members and social networking members for your support, both now and over the last six years.


It’s not easy managing a whole organisation, and it’s not even always pleasant, but it’s certainly worthwhile. We are passionate about raising awareness about self-injury, and with your help, we do, we really do. Making a difference in the world is such a reward – thank you all.


If you want to celebrate our May Birthday with us, please ‘attend’ our online Birthday Event on Facebook – you don’t have to do anything or go anywhere, it’s just a show of support.


0 Comments 18 days ago
Badges arrive early!
I know we said the end of April for delivery of our fantastic new LifeSIGNS badge sets, but they have arrived early so everyone who has pre-ordered will be getting them next week :)

If you haven't ordered yours yet and would like to, please do so from here: http://www.lifesigns.org.uk/services...

If you'd like to buy more than one set please email Jules@lifesigns.org.uk so I can give you a discount!
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whereas regular comments are quick and easy to use for those who tire and become bored easily of applications such as the whiteboard:)
such artistic expression which can be shown on the whiteboard could be helpful to those who reuire a little something to keep them occupied even if it is simply...
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by Yan Gillett
hi cut last night im having so much truble kicking it
my life is a mess my friends hate me

i so need some help please

Yan
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There are certainly a lot of ways to leave your mark on a Bebo profile - which is best? What's the difference between a whiteboard comment and a Comment comment?!
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Does your school / college / university have a policy regarding self-injury?
a) No way.
b) Kinda, we have a policy about emotional wellbeing...
c) Sorta, as self-injury is mentioned in some of our policies.
d) Yeah, we have a specific policy and self-injury can be talked about.
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