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Self-Injury
Self-injury (SI) or self-harm (SH) is deliberate injury inflicted by a person upon his or her own body without suicidal intent.
A common belief regarding self-injury is that it is an attention-seeking behavior; however, in most cases, this is untrue. Most self-injurers are very self-conscious of both their wounds and scars, and go to great lengths to conceal their behavior from others. They may offer alternative explanations for their injuries, or conceal their scars with clothing. Self-injury in such individuals is not associated with suicidal or para-suicidal behavior. The person who self-injures is not usually seeking to end his or her own life; it has been suggested instead that he or she is using self-injury as a coping mechanism to relieve emotional pain or discomfort. However, studies of individuals with developmental disabilities (such as mental retardation) have shown self-injury being dependent on environmental factors such as obtaining attention or escape from demands.
A common form of self-injury involves making cuts in the skin of the arms, legs, abdomen, inner thighs, etc. This is colloquially referred to as "cutting"; a person who routinely does this may be colloquially called a "cutter".
Examples of self-injury other than cutting include:
Punching, hitting and scratching
Choking, constricting of the airway
Self-biting of hands, limbs, tongue, lips, or arms
Picking at or re-opening wounds (dermatillomania), ulceration, or sutures
Hair-pulling (trichotillomania)
Burning, including cigarette burns, and self-incendiarism (as well as eraser burns, chemical burns [example; salt and ice burns])
Stabbing self with wire, pins, needles, nails, staples, pens, or hair accessories
Pinching or clamping, as with clothes pins, paper clips, etc.
Ingesting corrosive chemicals, batteries, or pins
Self-poisoning; for example by over-dosing on medication and/or alcohol, without suicidal intent
Self-injury among individuals with developmental disabilities often involves relatively simple actions, such as banging one's head against a hard surface, punching hard surfaces, biting oneself (usually hands or arms), or picking wounds. It may also include pica, the swallowing of nonfood items, which can be extremely dangerous and sometimes fatal.
Alternatively self-injury may be a means of feeling something, even if the sensation is unpleasant and painful. Those who self-injure sometimes describe feelings of emptiness or numbness (anhedonia), and physical pain may be a relief from these feelings. "A person may be detached from himself or herself, detached from life, numb and unfeeling. They may then recognise the need to function more, or have a desire to feel real again, and a decision is made to create sensation and ‘wake up’." Even though there is the possibility that a self-inflicted injury may result in life-threatening damage, self injury is not suicidal behavior. Although the person may not recognize the connection, Self Injury (SI) usually occurs when facing what seems like overwhelming or distressing feelings. The reasons self-injurers give for this behavior vary:
Self-injury temporarily relieves intense feelings, pressure or anxiety.
Self-injury provides a sense of being real, being alive – of feeling something.
Injuring oneself is a way to externalize emotional internal pain – to feel pain on the outside instead of the inside.
Self-injury is a way to control and manage pain – unlike the pain experienced through physical or sexual abuse.
Self-injury is a way to break emotional numbness (the self-anesthesia that allows someone to cut without feeling pain).
Self-abuse is self-soothing behavior for someone who does not have other means to calm intense emotions.
Self-loathing – some self-injurers are punishing themselves for having strong feelings (which they were usually not allowed to express as children), or for a sense that somehow they are bad and undeservi1 Comment 704 days
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Why don’t you die?
Your depressing condition is explicit in your reckless face, its result of a rancor nailed in your chest.
Weakness makes you give up on yourself; it makes increase the suffering more and more.
Scream of distress!
Suffered life loaded of missing and lost that'll never be forgotten.
No one sees you, no one wants you! You "live" just to lament things you weren't courageous enough to fight for.
You're an incurable disease...0 Comments 725 days
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hey! how are you?
ooooh arts and origami!! that wud be well interesting for u! would love to do some art.! best of luck with that dio!
look out for pictures in a few wks.! its another boy as well. i cannot wait to see his litltle face.xxxxxxx
was in hospital today and now i feel a bit sick. but just need to eat as well. i get stuff every wk for my blood.
the baby will be grand
hiya
we are ok thanks. 
hows things with u?
am just going to bed. have another hospital appt tomorrow. i get treatment for the babys blood whenever i am pregnant. its awful but its worth it.
love to u. xx
i have no my space but i do have facebook
never use the msn anymore, because i have no time to sit and speak. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
i was going to delete the bebo as well. i dont like it as much now.
am just going to bed, i have hospital tomorrow.
ii hope u are ok
hiya
so am happy about that.
hope all is well, and u are happy 
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yeh every1 is really good just now
amjust going shopping tomorrow to get some last things for the baby and some food shopping. we've ran out of nearly everything. eek!!
hows u?
hi there.
yeh we're really happy with the new medicine he is taking. its really helping his breathing.
the weather is mad here. its lovely and warm, but a bit humid. so its going to be thunder maybe tonight.
everyone is ok
nearly baby time. 6weeks!!
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hi there.
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matthew is on some new medication now, so he is much much better.! thanks for asking.
hows all with u? xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
hi
long long time no see
how r u ?
how is your writting good i hope
take care
aww its definately a little boy the doctor told me. lol. i cant wait to see his little face.
wont be long now. 
poor child always has something wrong with him.
and he is a very active baby which is nice, lots of kicks and moving about
am just going to go to bed early with the boys, because poor matthew needs to rest, he is still sick this evening. will decide tomorrow do i need to bring him to the doctors or what to do.
loads of love. xx
haha nooo its another little boy again.
i hope ur ok, being angry is not nice.
both boys are not well, they have coughs and are very cross.
xxxxxxxxxxxx have a good wkend. xx
awww its cold here and its the middle of summer as well. its so bad.
xx
we are all ok, the 2 boys have a bit of a cold and are grumpy.
am ok, am having the baby in about 9 wks so am a bit nervous. lol.
xxxxxxxxxxxxx hope ur well. have some love
awww
well i hope u get it sorted. and loads of love for u. xx i hope u are well. and things are ok.x x
im good
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having another baba in october so cannot wait for that.
how are u? xxxxxxxxx
Ha me too! You should add me on my new messenger, I'll mail it to you on here.
hey hun glad your back, i wondered wot happened to you , you take care n wb soon xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
ok love. chat to u whenever u are on next. xxxxxxxxxx loads of love.xx
hi love
yeah the kids are ok. just out of bed but still tired which isnt good. am definately going to have a wee nap this afternoon.
hows u? xxxxxxxxxxx
wish it was warmer here. its so cold and wet all the time. its just depressing. xx
urghh i jst walked my little boy to nursery and i got soaked. arghh was not nice.
the weather is rubbish today. really wet and windy.
his daddy can pick him up.
xx
aww, cookies are good
but not for all the time.
have medicine for my cough and it makes me tired. 
dont get too drunk 
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im going to bed in a minute.
am very tired.
oooh drink wud be nice
aww yeah im fine, so dont worry. i just got the cast off yesterday and i am struggling to walk a bit now, especially wi the wee ones. its a bit much, but its bedtime in a couple of hours and im making dinner too. so its grand.
what u upto this eve? xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx