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Celebrity Souljah <celebrity_souljah>

"Daniel Harding"

	Can you have someone else complete you?	530 dagen geleden
	So I've been thinking about this for a while now. Can you have someone else complete you as a perfon? Or should you be completed before that special someone comes into your life? I came out of a long term relationship over a month ago now and I felt no different from when I went into it. I know that because I was complete as a person I was ok coming out of this relationship, I don't need anyone else to fill that void. Is it ok to want to have someone fill the void, or should you fill it first before you get into a relationship. Heres what I think... I think it's very important to be whole and confident in yourself before you enter into a relationship. You need to be able to stand on your own two feet before inviting someone else into your life... You must feel complete as a person before you have someone come into your circle. This persons role is to make your cup runth over not to fill the void....if they are only filling it, your in trouble! So I ask this question then, is it ok to be in a relationship just because you don't like being single? I don't think it is! I don't think its fair on the other person! I don't think its ok that you are doing that to someone else! Heres the next question! Should you tell someone that someone needs the help before they continue on with their relationship? Or should you butt out? Heres my advice.....If you are needing someone in your life because you feel lonely its very important that you go get some help from the professionals...this doesn't have to be shrink or a counsellor but someone who has been in this situation and has out of it on top! However, I would say shrinks can lead you more into the right direction. You can't be in a relationship and feel this way about yourself...it will not work out, they never do! Also, if this is what you are doing then you are the sort of person to just sleep or choose anyone because they have looked at you, you need to treat yourself with more respect than this and be honest with yourself...without honesty your in more trouble than you think! Lastly, pray about it! God answers pray if you are a follower!
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